Am I over-reacting?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
1183 posts
Bumble bee

He sounds like he has issues, including problems with boundaries. I don’t know bee, he just sounds like a lot of trouble tbh. Like he’s emotionally invested in the past way beyond what is healthy. You need someone to enjoy the NOW with you! He may get over it and grow up, he may not. Do you really want to stick around and see? At the expense of your own sanity? xo

Post # 33
10664 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Amber7 :  

Typical for a narcissist.  He keeps a harem and pits you against each other.  Not a fixable problem, it’s a personality disorder. You seem to be willing to tolerate this crap, though.  



Post # 34
590 posts
Busy bee

The line between love and hate is very fine….the opposite of love is indifference not hate. 

If he talks about his ex with bitterness and resents her…he is probably still in love with her. 

Post # 35
2487 posts
Buzzing bee

Just to repeat for additional emphasis-why are you with this guy again And a little louder – WHY ARE YOU WITH THIS GUY????

Post # 36
5049 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

This guy is bad news.  You need to leave him. Not make threats to leave but actually leave him.


Post # 37
4830 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Amber7 :  He clearly loves drama and – most of all – the attention.   He can’t put you and your feelings first.   Just leave him and find someone who can have a normal, healthy relaitonship.   There are plenty of men out there – it isn’t as if he is the last one left.

Post # 38
676 posts
Busy bee

Amber7 :  why would anyone sell an oil line? Even if they did wouldn’t they be pretty set for life?

Post # 41
562 posts
Busy bee

You have proof he sold a gas and oil business? Men pretending they have an independent income so they don’t have to work is quite a common scam artist trick. The batshit crazy psycho ex is another common lie. You’re not in a healthy relationship, it must be 24 hour stress for you being with this guy. Get out of it and away from him, someone that desperate for attention and drama will end  up turning you into the batshit crazy one. While there seems to be an increasing number of these losers messing women about (going by the daily new threads here) there are so many nice guys out there who won’t behave this way.

Post # 42
9806 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

No thanks.

Post # 43
9811 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Out of curiosity…what is it you like about this guy?

Post # 45
3873 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

You obviously love the drama too, or you wouldn’t be putting up with any of this shit. 

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