(Closed) Am I over-reacting? I don't want him at my wedding…

posted 5 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

@princess_r:  People take racism/sexual jokes in the manner that they take them. If you don’t want him to show up to the wedding, don’t send out that invitation. 

Post # 5
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Talk to your Fiance and discuss this with him before you send out the invites. How many people are you inviting? If it is not too many and your Fiance agrees with not inviting him, you could say that you’re trying to keep the guestlist small due to budget restrictions.

Post # 6
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@princess_r:  Since this is your FI’s friend, I’d leave the decision up to him. However, there’s nothing wrong with telling your Fiance that Henry makes you uncomfortable. 

If your Fiance still wants to invite him, just stick him in a table in the back, you’ll never even have to deal with the guy. 

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