(Closed) am i over reacting? Maybe so… I think so… set me straight!!!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Um, he wants you to meet her. There are no secrets here. And she’s engaged, right? This is way over reacting. Don’t worry!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think its natural and not crazy or over stepping of you to feel that way!

I agree that its fabulous how honest your man is! The only thing I find weird is that he did the whole facebook number thing and friendship screening…are you looking for new friends?

Has office gossip about your Fiance been a problem in the past?

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@overthemoon: Okay that makes since 🙂

I hear ya, I am relitively new to my area as well, so meeting people is a good thing. For me It’s awkward in general cause nothing is like your friends from back home and what not. Its hard to describe.

Hopefully it will work out well !

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I actually love that he can feel comfortable enough to tell you all about her and tell you her good points too!  He wants YOU to be friends with her right?  That’s awesome!  I love it when my Fiance can tell me “oh that chick I work with is so good at her job, probably better than most of the guys” or whatever.  I’m also the same girl who doesn’t care if my Fiance thinks another girl is good looking.  Like hello, do I really think I’m the only good looking person to him?

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Ryansgirl: Yeah, I feel the same way. My feeling is, I’m the one with the ring on my finger, and at the end of the day, I know he is telling people the same thing about me (I’ve had people at his work tell me some of the things he’s said, they felt like they knew me before they ever met. Apparently, he talks about me a lot! 🙂 ) Its comforting that he can be totally honest with me, and I know you appreciate that in him as well.

I think its really just that he is kinda all puffed up about finding someone that he thinks you will hit it off with, and wants to make sure you know how awesome she is.  I think its sweet 🙂 He must think all these things about you if he thinks you guys would get along so swimmingly!!

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