(Closed) Am I overreacting?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

No, you’re not overreacting in my book. I would be really embarrassed by this too. I know he’s probably attached to the idea but you have to put your foot down somewhere. He can find something else silly to do that isn’t at your expense.

(Also, for a little while there it said you were posting from -1 years ago. I was going to congratulate you for mastering time travel.)

Post # 4
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11356 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@a_marie13:  There is absolutely NOTHING funny about what your Fiance wants to do. It  would be degrading, embarrasing, and completely inappropriate. This is your WEDDING, not a frat party.

Post # 5
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427 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think I have a pretty good sense of humor but I don’t think this is funny at all. I don’t think it’s a good idea, so I’m with you!

Post # 6
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909 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I wouldn’t marry someone who would suggest that as an option, to be honest.

But since it seems like it’s too late for that, I definitely wouldn’t let that song choice happen.

Post # 7
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1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

oh. hell to the no.

Post # 8
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915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

There is no way he is serious! He has got to be messing with you. It would gross me out to hear “oohhh that smell…” while he is going under your dress. 

Post # 9
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1081 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Umm.. how in the world does he think that is funny?

 

Post # 10
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790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I would be horrified if I witnessed this at a wedding.

If my fiance SUGGESTED this, for our wedding, I could only deduce that he had lost his damn mind.

Post # 11
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

ick…I side with you. as a guest I’d feel very awkward and embarrassed to see that stunt.

Post # 12
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591 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

ewwww, that’s gross!  you are NOT being over-sensitive

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

@Neetch:  That seems a little harsh.

It sounds like he just wants to plan something silly/fun at your wedding. Can you find a different way for him to do this? 

Post # 14
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688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yeah that’s not even a little funny. 

Post # 15
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365 posts
Helper bee

Yeah… I can appreciate a lot of crude jokes, but this is way more icky than it is funny.

What’s funny about everyone thinking the bride has BV or something?! I’d refuse to do the garter thing at all, after that suggestion.

Post # 16
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1975 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Brielle:  +1

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