(Closed) Am I overreacting? MOH uninterested….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Honestly, it sounds like maybe she is jealous or just moving away from your relationship.  When was the last time that you two had a real conversation or spent time together?  I know that I have changed a lot since high school and I have a hard time connecting with some of my older friends.  From your comments, I would consider stepping away from her as a friend, she doesn’t seem like a good friend anymore with all those horrible comments.

Post # 5
Member
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Sounds like there’s definitely some animosity there. I of course only know what you’re telling me, but there’s always 2 sides to every story. Do you talk about the wedding non stop? Have you put a lot of demands on her? Do you make a point to ask how she’s doing? Does she dislike your fiance for some reason?

There is of course NO excuse for rude behavior/comments, I’m just throwing some possibly ideas out there as to what could be happening. Sometimes wedding planning can put a bride into somewhat of a bubble. She might be going through something of her own, you never know. Regardless of what it is, it doesn’t excuse her being rude or blowing off plans with you.

Maybe call her up and ask for for a non-wedding related lunch and hear her out. Be honest about how she’s hurt you and be willing to listen to her as well. It would be silly to throw away years of great friendship over a couple lousy months, you know?

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