- 5 years ago
First of all, I do over react. A lot. however there are somethings that I’m just not sure how to deal with. Most of this started a few months back when FH saw some stuff o my phone he got upset about. Mainly old Facebook messages from way back. So when I saw he was upset I finally pulled it out of him why. Ok crises solved. So then I decided two could play at that game and decided to look on his phone. Big mistake. I found old messages (these are from before we dated) texts and pictures. All from before. So I was pissed. Mainly because I felt he didn’t have a right to get mad at me after he had that. So that was fight number two. So after that it became a habit to look from time to time. And when I say look I mean I dig deep. Go back as far as Facebook history will take me check emails and everything. I’ll look up exes on Facebook (just by their name not that he’s friends with them). I ask him about his exes and want to know everything I can. He’s sworn to me that I’m the one he wants and I have no reason to think he’s cheating. We live together and the only time he’s not with me is when he’s at work. The timing lines up and everything. Anyway, so a few minutes ago I was looking at his email (it’s connected to mine so I can handle the financial stuff and the notices he gets and stuff) I found an email from a few months before we started dating where he was talking to this fried of his about a girl he had been seeing and one he liled and even wanted to marry. I was livid! He never mentioned her to me… At all. And this was about a month before we went out the first time and I guess a few months before we were officially together.
He has friends who are girls on Facebook. I’ve never had reason to suspect anything, I’m just jealous. They seem nice and comment nice things about me but its just the idea. I mean if I had let my way he wouldn’t speak to any other girl. I know it’s petty but I know how I used to act around guys and I guess figure other girls would do the same.
Am I over reacting of do I have reasons to be jealous of them?