(Closed) Am I overreacting to be upset about this?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Honestly, I don’t know why you haven’t talked to her already. You need to let her know exactly what is expected of her and that she needs to communicate with your Maid/Matron of Honor.

Post # 5
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552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yeah, talk to her!

Post # 6
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128 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would kindly explain to her that there is a reason why there is a Maid/Matron of Honor and in order for things to be planned consistently and via one individual person, it would be most feasable for her to respond to Maid/Matron of Honor.  I would then ask if there is a particular reason why she has not responded thus far to the Maid/Matron of Honor.  Maybe there is some bickering going on you may not be aware of.  Maybe she is jealous that she was not chosen as the Maid/Matron of Honor.  Maybe there is some history between the two of them you may not know of.

I would definately delve a little deeper.

Good luck.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You may not need to bring it up depending on how well the conversation flows once you  bring up the other issues/questions.  Who knows, she may even bring it up herself.  If she does comes clean about being jealous or having some kind of history issues with her you can ask “is that why you did not make it to my shower? and see what she says.

Otherwise, if the moment was not right or did not present itself, I would probably would not address it. But…. if she misses another function or fails to follow thru with the going through and responding to Maid/Matron of Honor, then I would definately address it at that time.

Good luck Laughing

 

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