Post # 17
Hey- I feel your pain!
One thing I will say is that your batchorette party shouldn’t be arranged by you, it should be organised by them. That being said, if you’ve drawn the line about the strippers she should respect that.
Could you perhaps meet her over the next few months (I know it’s a trek)?? Maybe go with her to try dresses on?
Other people are always good at telling you how to plan yor wedding, I’d just smile and say “I’m sure you’ll feel differently when it’s your turn honey”. Try not to damage a friendship over this, I know it’s tough but your wedding is one day.
Be strong 🙂
Post # 18
Thanks bee’s. I really do appreciate your insight & opinions. I have talked to my other Maid/Matron of Honor & she said she doesn’t mind putting her foot down on the whoel bachlorette party thing if the other should decide to try to continue with it.I’ve been pretty lucky in that when she as offered to help she has really meant it.
@mrsgtobee: I am hoping to go down sometime soon before December. We have another friends wedding so the Fiance & I will take a few days to get stuff done for our wedding & attend still attend and enjoy theirs. I’ll try to make sure I don’t do any irrational! lol
Post # 19
Lol if you feel it coming on just breathe and say to yourself “in with love, out with hate”. If that doesn’t work just choke her lol :p
You just need to be strong, I hate how every time a bride defends her dream or beliefs that makes her a bridezilla. This is your day, when it’s her turn, she can choose how to do it – when its hr turn. She should be supporting you honey.