(Closed) Am I really fat?

posted 9 years ago in Fitness
Post # 3
1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

No, I think people are just being assholes and are feeling shitty about themselves that they have to put you down.


If you feel good about yourself, that is all that matters.

Post # 4
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

People say crazy things.  Dont let them make you feel bad. HUGS

Post # 5
4688 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@mrpatrick1: That lady at work is a real PITA. Sorry that she was so rude.

Post # 6
447 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch

I agree with PP. It is about how you feel. Never let people’s comments question how you feel about yourself.  I grew up with a father who (with very good intentions) watched our weight since we were young because that is the way his family is. We never got to eat any of the fun, sugary cereals that all the other children got to eat. He would always tell me, “Don’t eat that, you’ll get fat.” “Don’t eat now, it’s too late. You are going to gain weight.” etc etc. Had he WORDED it different, “That is n ot HEALTHY for your” maybe I wouldn’t have this struggle with food and weight that completely overtook the last 22 years of my life. I am sure your friend meant well, but was totally wrong to even suggest this to you, unless you asked for advise. Don’t you worry! I am sure you look fine.

Post # 7
865 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

People are just insecure about themselves! Sorry! 🙁

Post # 8
71 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

How rude!  I’m so sorry they treated you that way.  If you’re happy as you are, then don’t worry about them.  

Post # 9
328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@mrpatrick1: Um, no. You’re not fat. People are just cruel, and some don’t even realize it. I’d just brush it off.

Post # 11
592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Ugh, you’d think that adults would know to never ask if someone is pregnant, you wait for them to tell you. So rude, and so presumptuous! I know it’s easier said than done but just ignore them!

Post # 13
4304 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If someone ever grabbed me like that, for the record, I would slap the crap out of them.  HOW RUDE!!!!!!!!!

Post # 15
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011


That is terrible!!! Honestly, some people lack filters. Don’t let them phase you! 

Post # 16
6659 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Right now there is a girl in my office who is clearly in her third trimester, but she hasn’t announced it yet so I would NEVER say anything. Honestly, it’s just rude. People are rude. And I see women all the time with bellies who I know aren’t pregnant, but either way it’s none of my business!

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