(Closed) Am I really going to have to be that guest? Feeling terrible.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What would you do?

    Suck it up and go to the wedding

    Cancel regretfully and send a good gift


  • Post # 136
    5708 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

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    Demi-chan:  Just want to say I’m glad you found a solution and are able to go to your friend’s wedding afterall. I am also sorry you got so much undeserved shit on here. I love it here, and I hope you can learn to love it again too. And cuuutteee kitty!

    Post # 137
    5879 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @Demi-chan: Glad its working out for you to OP. You did get bad hand in this thread. No way would I expect a friend in the middle or end of an international move to come to my wedding. I would be momentarily disappointed but hey those are the breaks. There is no rhyme or reason on the Bee sometimes. Sometimes the swarm is supportive other times not, thats the internet for ya. 

    Post # 138
    13813 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    15 weeks is young, so I do understand the nature of some of your concerns.  Is it  possible for your friend to look in a couple of times a day?  I’ve done that for people.  The good news is that you won’t be gone very long.  Also, be sure you safety proof the apartment thoroughly, especially if you are mid construction.  

    Post # 139
    632 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Wow you sure got some hate in this thread! So sorry you had to read all that and that people decided to be stank instead of helpful.  Glad you found a solution too!  I hope this doesn’t scare you from this website – sometimes you just get unlucky with how people respond.

    Post # 140
    270 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

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    barbie86:  Oh man, what you said so hard. 

    When my friend was going to move to Asia, she researched EVERYTHING. For months. 

    Furthermore, while it’s a cute kitten, it soudns like there’s enough on the OP’s plate already. Why add a baby kitty when you just moved to a foreign country. In My Humble Opinion, not so logical or responsible.

    Post # 141
    1947 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I know I’m late commenting, but if you got the kitten from a breeder, why couldn’t the breeder take her for the few days you were gone?

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