(Closed) Am I stressing for no reason or am I way behind?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
272 posts
Helper bee

i agree that it might be a little off-putting to write out “duties” for each person, as they are doing this out of their good graces and really aren’t obligated to do anything.  Instead, I would take things one step at a time.  Invitations will have to go out before the cake is baked, so work with that person first.  He or she may be waiting for you to step in and ask about it, so I don’t think it would be inappropriate to send a kind email about the cake, decor, or invitations.  I don’t think you need to be worrying too much, though.  Also, in regards to your bridesmaids, they may be of the mindset that all they need to do is buy the dress and show up on the day of the wedding.  i don’t think it’s up to you to disillusion them of this – you really can’t demand a shower or bachelorette party, so if they don’t happen they don’t happen. 

Post # 4
64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We Have the same date!!! 🙂 I feel really behind too. We just started making our invites today. I haven’t had my girls order their dresses yet so you are good one that part. I think if you just start talking about ideas stuff will start to fall more into place. I wouldn’t wait too much longer though. I talked to my Maid/Matron of Honor about throwing a bridal shower for my side of the fam. So I don’t think that will make you a bridezilla.

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