- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
My wedding is in 4 days and I am a ball of nerves, so I can’t tell if I’m overreacting or if my outrage is warranted. I need your level-headed opinions, please! Some background: About 2 weeks ago, I emailed my photographer a day-off timeline and asked for his food preferences/any allergies/ethic/religious considerations, etc. He replied and all was well. Unfortunately, a few days ago, I had to rearrange the timeline a little bit and ended up having to send him an updated versiou. Below is a redacted email chain between myself and my photographer (names have been removed to protect all those involved):
On Tue, Apr 23, 2013 at 5:18 PM, wrote:
Great and I’m glad to see you’re on top of everything and making sure your day is perfect:)
I did not think that my email to him warranted this sort of reply. Aside from teh fact that I think that I was fully in my right to ask what I did, I honestly would have been okay if he asked me not to micromanage and that he has things under control. But this just seems like such a passive-aggressive, underhanded way of saying “I know what I’m doing so F*** off” that it made me VERY angry.
So, am I overreacting? Did my email to him come off as bitchy or bridezilla-y and deserved this kind of response? or am I in my right here? Should I say something to him about how upset I am over this? Or just try to drop it and move on? Any and all advice would be appreciated!