Am I the afterthought

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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9471 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Issa bust. 

Post # 3
Hostess
3641 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Yes, yes you are. Go find someone who makes you a priority!!

Post # 4
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46 posts
Newbee

Did you confront him about not inviting you or even telling you? 

Post # 5
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1364 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

Definitely a bust, sorry.

Post # 6
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744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

trust your gut feelings, you know you deserve better than this. time to plan a getaway for yourself!

Post # 9
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552 posts
Busy bee

 Yeahhhh this is going nowhere. Cut bait and get out of there. This is a huge waste of time. Sorry bee.

Post # 10
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158 posts
Blushing bee

whyme22 :  Yeah… Go be in a relationship with someone who is excited to be with you. It’s been 7 years and he doesn’t even consider you “destination wedding date material”.  Move on. 

Post # 11
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128 posts
Blushing bee

whyme22 :  run, run as fast as you can. You deserve better. 

Post # 12
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

His response is BS. He should have contacted his brother to clarify that you have been a couple for 7 years and that he expected you to be included in the invitation. Instead, he hid it from you. What does that say to you?

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

whyme22 :  That’s not acceptable behavior bee. Someone who respects you would at least tell you what’s going on in their life. I mean… SEVEN YEARS??? Why wouldn’t you be invited anyway? Leave him and find someone who actually wants you to be part of their life. 

Post # 14
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479 posts
Helper bee

I bet he’s planning to take someone else. Everyone knows but you. His friends are sick of covering for him, so they decided to throw him under the bus by mentioning the wedding. Why else hide such a big event? Clearly he didn’t want you tagging along. If the invite didn’t include a plus one, he could have told you that six mos ago. Or if his parents are paying his airfare to make it possible for him to attend, he could have told you that too. Why hide it, you ask? Because there’s something to hide. 

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