Am I the bad person? Need comments!!

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

I’m so confused. 

Post # 3
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Blushing bee

What the hell did I just read?!?

Your poor son shouldn’t be witnessing these family domestics. Your husband has said he will talk about you badly to your son if you leave?? What?? What kind of loving relationship is that?? He shouldn’t be threatening you of any sort and definitely shouldn’t be bringing your son into it. 

Are you chinese? Do you have any family or close friends near you? I think you need a bit of support at the moment because you are going to have to try and untangle yourself from this mess of family, if you can’t do it for yourself do it for your son. I think you need to contact a lawyer and a counselor. 

Also, stop worrying about who is the bad person in this!! That’s irrelevant!! Just get help to get out of this unhealthy mess of a situation for your son’s sake

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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pecanp :  What. The. Actual. F🤐ck

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

I’m afraid to click the link because I’m not sure of its validity

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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pecanp :  Sorry bee, I have moderated the link as am not sure of the validity and I for one would not want to click on it. 

Post # 7
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Newbee

i think you have a serious problem but i cannot see the video. it does not sound like you should visit your mother in law if there is that conflict. also it is for me a red flag that your husband is not choosing your side.  your man must always be on your side and have your back. that is what it is being married. that person is choosing you over any one and every one else

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper

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newbiebee1977 :  This is incredibly stupid and short-sighted, but it does explain a lot.

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pecanp :  Your train of thought is incoherent, and I don’t believe it’s because English is your second language.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

It seems like you’re in a bad relationship with a family that doesn’t like you. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

I think you need  therapy for you and your husband to deal with his mother.  It’s clear she doesn’t like you and wants your husband to still listen to her and doesn’t care about your feelings.  I’d stay out of that until she can be more civil with you since your son doesn’t need to see family drama like that all the time.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If your husband is not on your side, nothing any of us can say will help you. 

你老公要是不站在你这一边,我们说什么都没用。

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

You do not sound like a bad person. It seems like you are in a very bad situation. I sincerely hope you find a solution.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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pecanp :  Sorry,  I don’t want to run the risk of infecting my computer. There is no need anyway. Your description of the situation is enough. Also, if you need people to review footage of your family dynamic that probably tells you all you need to know. Sorry bee. 

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