(Closed) Am I the oldest waiting Bee???

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Which date will it be?
    Thanksgiving : (1 votes)
    2 %
    Dec 5th Trip to NYC : (24 votes)
    37 %
    Dec 20 Trip to Buffalo : (6 votes)
    9 %
    Christmas : (6 votes)
    9 %
    New Years : (6 votes)
    9 %
    Jan 5 My 29th Bday : (4 votes)
    6 %
    Jan 23 Our 2 year Ann. : (15 votes)
    23 %
    Valentines Day : (3 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    385 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2010

    So exciting.  With all those possibilities at least it will be a surprise!  I think it is sweet he wants to pick out the ring solo.  My Fiance knows I can be picky, so he definitely included me in the process.

    Post # 4
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    1016 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I’m not waiting but I was 31 when we got engaged in May – hang in there – you’re still young too!!!   I was getting antsy but in hindsight I wouldn’t change anything – it worked out beautifully.  Good luck!

    Post # 5
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    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I’m 21 and impatient to get the show on the road; I admire you ladies who are older than me, in longer relationships, and are nevertheless waiting patiently!

    Age is relative. Age doesn’t mean anything. Age is just a number. I think we all feel the same things as we journey through engagements and marriages.

    My bet is on your birthday. 🙂

    Post # 6
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    10218 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    29 here and older than you by almost six months exactly :P.. M also won’t let me pick out the ring at all!! I have shot him email after email after email of rings that I like it’s quite hilarious :D… as far as special days go…

    Nov 14 – our 1 year anniversary of living together (didn’t happen btw lol!!)

    Dec 1 – our 18 month anniversary (doubt it)

    Dec 24 – we arrive in Memphis to visit my parents

    Christmas Day

    Valentine’s Day

    and that’s it.. I am thinking it will happen nearer to my birthday of July 2…

    Post # 8
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    1045 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2008

    I wasn’t an “official” waiting bee (my husband popped the question on me in a surprise), but I didn’t get engaged till I was 30.  I just hadn’t met “the one” before then!

    Post # 9
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    474 posts
    Helper bee

    I voted for your NYC trip because I’m a iittle biased and love New York. I admit I was a little surprised with the number of 21 and 22 year olds who are waiting, but I also think that it is great that they have found the man of their dreams so early in life. I guess I could have potentially been here waiting when I was 22 because we had been together for 3 years at that point, but I didn’t really feel like I was waiting until much more recently

    Post # 10
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    10218 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Meh @knelly we are broke lol I doubt if it is before next year to be honest with you. I secretly hope for christmas though…

    Post # 11
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I would find it harder to wait if I was older, too! When i was younger, I was always reminding myself that I was still young and to chill out =]. People get defensive about that though–I have friends who are younger than me and get all kinds of “age ain’t nothing!” about it. There are so many social implications that you should be getting married in your older 20’s, too, but also so many other factors. You have your lives together more, which I think plays a MUCH bigger factor in the waiting game. Like, it’s the icing on the cake! 20 and 21 year olds are still typically in college and trying to figure things out! I remember having moments like that and bringing myself back to reality, lol.

    I think it’ll be a very RANDOM night. Like, a Tuesday dinner at home, when you have a mouth ful of macaroni and cheese. And then you’ll be so surprised you’ll knock your wine glass over and then you’ll have a good laugh over it =]

    Post # 12
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    1280 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    dude im turning 30 in 4 months!!! and g**d***** i want to get hitched already!!!! before i even met my Boyfriend or Best Friend, i totally had this vision in my head that i’d be married by 28, leaving 1-2 years to decide about kids, because even though in my heart of hearts i don’t want kids, if it was going to happen i wanted to pop them out before 30. but i also thought i’d be settled in a career and making more $$ now, but that didn’t happen either. it’s not that i’m not happy with where my life is right now, but like everyone else, i’m tired of waiting!!

    Post # 13
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    682 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I was also 31 when we got engaged. I will be 32 (but 1 month shy of 33) by the time we get married. We were dating 3 years when we got engaged.  I don’t feel old at all, I feel wise and mature and confident that I am in a much better position to handle the good and the challenging times in marriage than I would have been had I done this in my early 20’s.

    Post # 14
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    572 posts
    Busy bee

    29 is not old!

    I am 27 and still waiting there are other bees that are older than 29 so dont freak out just yet.

    Post # 15
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    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I was 31 when I got engaged (34 now)…but I got engaged 2 months after meeting my Fiance so I guess that doesn’t count as waiting. I wasn’t even interested in marriage prior to so I didn’t feel pressed when those around me got engaged. 29 is definitely not old…your time is coming and when it does, it will be worth the wait.

    Post # 16
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    559 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I voted and can’t wait to find out if I’m right! 🙂

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