(Closed) am I the only one

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

I don’t get mad but I get worried, I start wondering if he’s hurt and work myself up. Is this a constant thing? If so you should really sit down and talk about it.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

agreed! hes probs having a beer or something with the guys! but i need a text or i go crazy and start worrying LOL hope hes home soon! 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I hear ya! My Fiance is playing hockey tonight and he NEVER texts! If he is more than 30 minutes late, I go to bed, assuming he is having a drink with the guys, then stay awake in bed worrying that he is in a car accident or died or something.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

YES!!!! But somehow after the 8 millionth time of this happening (DH is late for everything, but he’s finally figured out that I’m a girl who gets hangry, so when it comes to food, don’t eff with me), he’s realized he needs to communicate better with me. That being said, now he’s a complete over communicator. I’ve created a monster. Seriously. Examples over the last few days:

– Expectos Patronus! (I was going to see Daniel Radcliffe at a tv show taping)

– Random comments on Seal and Heidi Klum’s divorce

– The Bachelor is coming to Canada

– Toronto’s mayor is going to eat another mayor. (I have no idea where he was going with that…)

– There are air raid sirens going off on our street and he can’t figure out why.

And my two personal favourites:

– Valdez, Alaska has gotten 27′ of snow this year! Fact!

– I want to start a restaurant. Harry Poutini’s. I’d sell burritos. And used furniture emporium.

Seriously.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I usually don’t care if it’s under an hour. And then it’s not angry, it’s worried.

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

I’m the one who is usually late… so, no.  😉

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I agree with some of the PPs. My Fiance is late quite often but it’s not that I get mad, it’s that I get super worried!!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I agree that you should let someone know if you’re going to be late, it is frustrating to feel like you are not a priority!

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I have ADD, so I’m always late although Ive gotten better in my old age. I’m apologizing for your Darling Husband, we really just don’t notice the time passing.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I get worried/mad. Worried when I think something might be wrong, and mad once I find out he’s OK. But of course I can’t stay mad long!

I’m an “always-15-min-early” person, though. So it annoys me when people are late/arrive juuuuust on time. Grr!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I get mad sometimes, because my fiance is usually late. Even when I tell him we HAVE to be out the door by a certain time, or he HAS to meet me somewhere… It’s frustrating, but I try to let it go if its not a big deal. Now if he’s late to the wedding he will get an ear full! lol

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper

@bakerella:  Hahaha!

I’m also in the “not mad, just worried” camp, but Fiance is rarely late and always texts or calls if plans get changed.

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