Post # 1
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Bee Keeper
- Wedding: October 2019 - City, State
I have been reading a lot of dress posts lately, I am picking up my dress tonight actually from alterations. I haven’t posted it and don’t plan on it until after my wedding. But this post isn’t actually about my dress directly. It’s about calling a dress “hershe”. Am i the only one that cringes a little everytime I see this?
example
“once I tried her on, I knew she was the one!”
whaaaaat?! that just sounds….. strange.. You tried HER on? O_o
I have only called my dress…well.. my dress.
Is this just a weddingbee thing? Am I the only crazy person who thinks it’s strange to refer to a dress as a “she”? 🙁
Post # 3
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Busy bee
i find it strange when they call wigs a she on youtube. lol i wear alot of wigs but i wont say she is gorgeous. lol. i havent seen anyone on the bee call a dress a she…..im glad i missed that post lol
Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
Yah, I find it kind of odd too. I just call mine an it. I did call my last car a she sometimes though, and her name was Eleanor. I have not yet named my new car so I call it an it.
Post # 5
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Helper bee
@stardustintheeyes: This made me giggle! I don’t call my dress “her”, but I do call my car “her /she” so I guess I’m just as guilty!
Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
@stardustintheeyes: My dress is an “it”, not a “she” hahaha
Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
I call my car a she (and she has a name lol). I guess if I were to assign a gender to a wedding dress iv would probably usually call it a she.
Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
- Wedding: October 2019 - City, State
I mean it’s not something i actually get annoyed at or anything, I just think it’s weird!!! Like it just doesn’t sound right!
I tried her on
Im picking her up
I chose her
I knew she was the right one for me
when i put her on, it just felt like she was the one.
Am I the only one that thinks of creepy things like trying on a woman’s skin or something? like literally “trying her on”?!
It’s the strangest thing to me, the Bee is the only place I have seen it so far. But today I did a dress post overload and I noticed it.
Post # 9
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Bumble bee
I have never referred to my dress as “she”. Its an inanimate object, I think its really weird that so bees call their dress she or her. I absolutely love my dress, but its still an “it”.
Post # 10
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Bumble bee
@stardustintheeyes: Yeah I think it’s a little weird! 😛
Post # 11
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Bumble bee
I don’t call my dress “she” but I do call my ring “her.” Like…”Look at her, she’s so sparkly in the light! I love her babe!” or something. On the same token I can’t think of calling my dress she. That’s weird to me.
I think I have issues (I also call my car a her. She’s my bad luck black jellybean, lol).
Post # 12
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Sugar bee
@stardustintheeyes: I’m pretty sure my dress is male, so I call it “he,” or sometimes Roger.
Post # 13
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Blushing bee
i think it’s weird. not bothersome…just weird
Post # 14
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Blushing bee
Yeah, I find it pretty odd too tbh.
Post # 15
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Helper bee
My dress came with a ladies name so I was calling it that from the get go. It kind of stuck. Now I think it’s kinda funny.
I dont get why it would make someone cringe. But I probably have stranger pet peeves.