(Closed) Am I the only one who doesn’t get it? *Vent-kinda long*

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
2100 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Maybe he is planning on surprising you with something very special? 

Post # 5
1626 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I know someone who went through this exact situation. He said he had it handled and that she should just not think about it, but she kept pestering him over and over until he finally said “fine here!” and handed her the ring and two tickets to Wicked (which she had been dying to see). He wanted to formally propose to her as a surprise after the show about 3 days before they eloped. I can’t tell you how many times I have heard stories that end in the phrase “fine, here”, a lot of crying and the ultimate ruined surprise. I would say trust him because it sounds like he has a plan.

Post # 6
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Corilee13: Agreed.

Trust him with this. You’re about to make a commitment to trust him for the rest of your life. (and if they don’t fit you can just wrap some tape around the back until you get them sized)

Post # 7
189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Corilee13: I agree, just trust him and try to wait patiently. My cousin and his wife weren’t eloping, but she had been waiting for a long time for him to propose and kept pestering him… He was waiting for the 4th of July to propose under the fireworks, and instead he jumped out of the shower while she was whining at him, grabbed the box handed it to her, said “HERE!” and then got back in the shower. Oh so romantic!

Anyways, I hope it’s worth the wait!

Post # 9
588 posts
Busy bee

I agree with all the ladies. Trust him! What if he wanted you to make a wish list just so he could see a style, and then he’s going to get it somewhere else. Maybe in person, in your city. Who knows! Just trust him =)

Post # 10
1571 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree that it sounds like he has a plan, but holy hell, cutting it that close would drive me batty, too!

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