(Closed) Am I the only who thinks that a holiday proposal is not nice?

posted 10 years ago in Proposals
Post # 33
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I told my Fiance absoloutely no holiday proposals.  I think holidays are already special.

Post # 35
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Im indifferent as well because we wont even be celebrating our one year engagement anniversary!! We will be married for exactly 2 weeks on the date of our engagement so it doesnt really matter! We got engaged over Labor Day weekend and Im glad we did because it meant an extra long weekend of celebrating!

Post # 36
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think it’s that big a deal, but I would prefer not to become engaged on a holiday (I’m already married at this point).  I think it’s a nice surprise, but can be predictable.  I phoned a friend on her birthday several years ago and minutes later she became engaged.  And her husband was really cute and creative about it, so it was nice, but x-mas, Valentine’s day?  A bit cliche, but guys don’t know.  I don’t want anyone to become offended (which I’m awesome at doing).  I mean I think it’s better to become engaged on a “holiday” (that’s one big birthday or x-mas gift!), but I wouldn’t want to be married on a holiday either as it would take away from the specialness of your anniversary for some (and I don’t mean gift-wise).

I’m with cakegal -I’d never heard of this phenomenon of “waiting” until after I was engaged and stumbled onto weddingbee through a google search.  I became engaged at the NY marathon, so I know it was somewhere around 11/2 -11/4.  I think considering how expensive an e-ring is, it CAN be a b-day or x-mas gift.  And considering the “waiting list,” I’d be damned happy if it was! Smile  As far as getting engaged on a holiday -you all are right –you don’t celebrate that!  We stopped celebrating our dating anniversary after we became engaged I think.  So maybe a holiday proposal would be memorable (Oh this is the day we became engaged.  One “less” gift on the actual proposal, but come one.)

Post # 37
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Fiance proposed to me on my birthday this past December. I loved it and we still celebrated my birthday as a separate event.

 

In the end the only day we are going to celebrate in relation to our marriage or engagement is going to be our actual wedding day this April. 

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t know if I’m supposed to feel bad or not. I’m getting married on 9/11 and granted, I’m not Amercian, but I still get funny looks and I feel like telling those people to “F” off. Seriously. Didn’t something tragic happen EVERY DAY in history? I’m sorry, it just irks me that people try to stomp on your happiness every which way they can.

Post # 39
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Honestly…my Fiance and I don’t celebrate an engagement anniversary. We celebrate our dating anniversary and once married, we will celebrate that. I honestly can’t remember the date that my Fiance proposed…I just know it was in December of 06. It wouldn’t have mattered if it was a holiday though.

Post # 40
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

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@bee-gotten: Because you’re not American, I think that makes all the difference.  I’ll admit, I think it’s a little odd when Americans choose that as their wedding day -sort of like the Anzac Day thing.

Post # 41
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

When I got engaged I would have taken any day for a proposal holiday or not! lol I was so anxious. He ended up proposing on New Years Eve and I was really super happy he did. I thought that the holiday proposal was nice because you are already in such a cheery mood, most likely on a break of sorts from either work or school… for us we were on vacation so it was just all perfect.

Post # 42
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

ok now i think i understand what you mean.  i do think it’s a little odd to be expecting an engagement simply because it’s near a holiday.  but then i also never went to the waiting boards before i was engaged.  heck, i had never heard of weddingbee until a few months after.

for us it happened that way because Fiance lives 10 hrs away and he was home visiting for christmas.  i was actually completely surprised because whenever we had discussed getting engaged it was looking like it would be summer of 2010.

i think a lot of this just boils down to personal preference.  everyone is different. 🙂

Post # 43
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I was proposed to on Valentines day and I loved it. Also I’m getting married 2 weeks before my Birthday but that’s not a big deal either.

Post # 44
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My fiance got some advice from a jeweler once when looking at rings- don’t get engaged on a holiday because then the ring is a gift.  If the fiance breaks the engagement, she can keep the ring since it was a gift.  But, if you get engaged on another day, the ri9ng is a contract and if the fiance breaks the engagedment, she is legally required to give the ring back since she broke the agreement of engagement.  Nice advice coming from a jelewler, right?

Post # 45
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

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@kirafiki: LOL yikes! that’s a grim way of looking at things haha

Post # 46
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@kirafiki: LOL ! That is CLASSIC !

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