(Closed) Am I too trusting?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 122
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@Am I Naive: Saw update! YAY THank goodness!

Post # 123
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Newbee

I’m so proud of you too. In the end, kicking him out is the only way for him to respect you and more importantly, for you to respect yourself. Where you were headed would have only led to mistrust and destroyed your self-esteem.

Just take one breathe at a time, one bite at a time, and one day at a time, but always remember the end goal – which is to do what is right and best for you and your daughter.

I wish you well. It will be a difficult journey ahead but given the strength you displayed in your last post (and as weak as you might have felt, you were awfully strong and courageous), you will survive and get through this.

Post # 125
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Good for you for holding your ground!! You WILL Be fine, with our without him

Post # 126
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so proud of you!!! I know how difficult it was for you to tell him that, but in the end, you’ll be much happier–if you guys work it out, you’ll know it’s because he really wanted it and it wasn’t just convenience, If you guys don’t work out, you’ll be able to look back and have a sense of self respect.

You go girl!!!

Post # 127
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

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@Am I Naive: I am so glad you had the insight to realize that you needed to move things back to square 1. I think dating is the perfect solution, you can get some separation in and figure out what you want, while still trying to piece this back together.

Good for you and stay strong!

Post # 128
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@Am I Naive: Im really glad you made him move out- I personally believe you need some alone time JUST for yourself and if then you want to date him (if you havent found anyone better by then, which I think might be the case if your serious about dating (I assumed that meant other people for you), then I would contact him. You really need to ask if you could be ready to expose yourself to him again and date…I honestly think no contact for a while would be a really good idea, but Im glad you enforced the idea of him moving out. Its a good start, and I wish for you much happiness in the future.

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