(Closed) Am I totally wrong? HELP before I piss off my FBIL

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
3997 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t worry about this anymore than you already have!  I’m so sure everyone sees this stuff for what it is, an attention seeking ploy.  They’re obviously not happy and I’m sure they’re fooling no one.  You and your FH are happy so prove it, enjoy this week and the wedding and laugh the rest off!  🙂

Post # 32
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

“And I just had a clear reminder as to WHY I dont bother to post on here anymore”

You asked for people’s opinions.  You asked if you were overreacting.  And people responded.  Did you just want only responses that agreed with you?

Personally, I think you are overreacting.  It’s Facebook, it’s a stupid picture, who cares?  If they did this last week, would you say they were ruining your “wedding month”?

The wedding stress is probably just getting to you and this seems like a bigger deal than it is.  Just take a step back and focus on you and Fiance and ignore petty stuff like this.

Post # 33
2702 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i totally understand why you are annoyed/upset… but don’t let them get the best of you… honestly, just let it roll off your back as if it’s nothing. getting you upset is part of their getting more attention. and they don’t deserve it.

this is your week, your wedding day and their immature behavior won’t do anything to get in the way, unless you let them!

Post # 34
5976 posts
Bee Keeper

I can definitely see why this is bothering you, b/c it would bug the heck out of me too. It sounds like this girl is extremely immature. It does seem though that your Future Mother-In-Law really likes you a lot and is excited for the wedding.

I say, hold your head up high, and grin and bear it. Show her that it doesn’t bother you. She’s doing this to get a reaction out of you, and the more that you show you’re focused on your wedding and the fact that she’s making her BF say they’re married doesn’t bother you, the less she’s going to do it. And even if she does keep at it…you’re the one that’s going to have the piece of paper at the end of the week showing that you’re married…not her. So you can rub that in her face! Muhahaha!

Post # 35
946 posts
Busy bee

I totally understand why your upset.  But take a step back and breathe.  You’re right, this is your week.  So enjoy it.  Put their silly games out of your mind.  When it comes down to it, no one will remember their post-it marriage in ten years, but they will remember what a beautiful day your wedding was!

Post # 36
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I totally understand why you would be upset, but like many others have stated, the girl is (most likely) jealous and immature and this was a last ditch attempt to garner some attention before your big day comes.  Don’t stress about it, it’s totally not worth your time.  Enjoy your day/week and how wonderful your wedding day will be!

Post # 37
536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

OMG facebook is sooo overrated!  Forget about it!  She is is crazy, you said it yourself!  Just focus on your day and being happy!


But please don’t be mad at everyone’s feedback..you did ask for our opinons on the situation!

Post # 38
407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

It’s facebook…and obviously they are losers…so just ignore them! Just try to focus on the important things in life…trust me by tomorrow everyone will forget what they wrote on facebook…heck on 2 weeks everyone will forget about your wedding…its true…so just remember what this all is really about….you being united with the man of your dreams:-)


Good luck!!

Post # 39
624 posts
Busy bee

Which would you rather have: your relationship or theirs?  In the end, it’s not about who got married first nor is it how they got married.  You get one day, not a month and not a year.  Let them be attention whores all they want, it’s a reflection of them, not you.

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