(Closed) AM I wrong?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
257 posts
Helper bee

Your Bridesmaid or Best Man should not be telling you what color the rest of the party is going to wear. As long as you consider the cost for them and don’t make them pay more than say, $50 for a dress they say they won’t wear again, you are NOT wrong!

Post # 4
328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You are not wrong.  And be prepared for more fun/drama from this one. 

Post # 6
722 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@primepretty:  I agree with PP, they shouldn’t be telling you what color they’re wearing. You need to pick a color and than if you decide to let them do mismatch than that’s fine. But  if you want them in the same color/shade than you need to make that be known to them.

Post # 7
1193 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@primepretty:  nope you’re not wrong buoy pick your color scheme. What about lime green dresses and ivory shoes. Like green shoe will be hard to wear again. Well not for me but for most. 

Post # 9
872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I actually like those colors you posted, I don’t think they look teeny-bopper at all. 

I’d politely ask her to return the dress, and buy a dress in the color you wanted. 

She seems like she is a bit controlling maybe because you’ve been too laid back, so maybe by showing her some direction she will back down, but since I don’t know you, or her I cannot say for sure. 

I wish you all the best! And hopefully your Bridesmaid or Best Man will come around.

Post # 10
7219 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@primepretty:  The colors look happy to me! Not teeny bopper, just modern and fun. Your bridesmaid is annoying and pushy. She doesn’t get to tell YOU what colors people are wearing. Tell her to have her own wedding 😛

Post # 12
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I don’t see teenybopper at all. Is there maybe some underlying reason for her behavior? If not, she needs to toe the line. YOU are the bride, and as far as dress colors, what the bride says is law.

Post # 14
1796 posts
Buzzing bee

It doesnt look teenybopper. It looks spring! 

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