- 9 years ago
- Wedding: February 2012
Okay I’m going to try to keep this as short as possible. We will call my friend A and the guy C.
I got married this last Friday. At the reception my friend A (I’ve known for almost 10 years), sat next to C my now husbands bestfriend. A and C have flirted in the past, which got A in trouble with her fiance before. I’ve never hooked them up, or even introduced them. They have made their own thing on their own, I can’t control adults.
Last night I posted pictures from my wedding and reception on Facebook, and tagged my friends in them. In one picture A was sitting next to C, after I posted it I get a text from my friend A. She says, can you please not tag me in anymore pics. I say okay, why. She says she doesnt want problems in her relationship, and that she already untagged herself. I said ok.
Fast forward to today. I’m on my facebook and I go to her page, I realize were no longer friends. I text her and ask her if she deleted me, no reply. Then I call my other friend and ask her if she talked to A. She says yes, and that A was mad at me over the picture. Saying that I should’t have put it up because she was sitting next to C. And her fiance didn’t like that.
My thing is, I didnt have any seating chart. She could have gotten up and moved seats. After the wedding, She had C sitting in her car laughing and playing. At the reception she was laughing and playing with him also, no complaints. But, when her fiance see’s the pictures she blames me. Doesn’t say a word to me, but tells mutual friends that I did something to her. But what did I do ???
My feelings are so hurt, I feel like she messed up with her fiance. Instead of her taking responsibility she tries to blame me. I didn’t make her sit by him, or even talk to him. I didn’t put the pictures up with any ill intent, I was just excited about sharing my pictures. I didn’t think my wedding would cause me to lose a friend.
I don’t think I even want to bother trying to save the friendship.