(Closed) Am I wrong … Or Is she Crazy ???

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

This is 100% on her.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@DevolSyawla:  Agree with PP, 100% her. Seriously immature behavior on her part all around. The issues in her relationship are due in part to the insecurities in their relationship and not taking responsibility for behaviors (i.e she’s trying to blame her fiance’s anger on you). Not even worth trying to salvage the friendship! 

Post # 5
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Busy bee

You’re right. She’s an adult. She should take responsibility for her own actions.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@DevolSyawla:  

I’d call her out on it. That’s not on. How immature…she wants to flirt when she’s obviously been asked not to and covering up is worth losing a freind. Come to think of it, don’t call her out, just let her go. Don’t feel bad xx

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

This is seriously all her problem. If she doesn’t want to take the responsibility of an adult, then her fiance can find that out the hard way later on.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It sounds like she has a guilty conscious.. could something have happened between the two that you don’t know about making her super defensive or nervous?  Just seems really odd… sitting next to another guy should have caused her reaction like that unless something else is going on. Speculating aside, you did nothing wrong, let her be immature and go on her way

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s just ridiculous. I’d call her on it too.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Grow up A!  I also believe A has a guilty conscious and is trying to pass blame onto someone else.  Hope A gets over herself and rekindles your friendship with her.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I agree with PP’s, something just doesn’t seem right about the situation. I probably would not seek to rekindle a friendship with her, but that’s  just me, my tolerance for crazy is very low. 

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

You are just the scape goat. Don’t sweat it.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’d call her out, too.  You don’t deserve to be put through the ringer just because she wants to flirt with someone.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

She definitley needs to grow up.  Why the EFFF is she flirting with some random when she has a fiancee? 

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Her bad.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think you should let this girl go.  She sounds like drama and you do not need that mess in your life.  Just forget her and let her go on her merry way.

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