(Closed) Amethyst Engagement Rings

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
41 posts

I actually work in jewelry right now, and I can say that a lot of jewelers would recommend a purple sapphire instead, because it is so much more durable, and would hold up better for daily wear. It’s a bit pricier, but you could get a color-enhanced or synthetic if you’re open to that. Then you miss out on the birthstone factor, but it’ll still look fabulous for many years to come!

Post # 4
3256 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@ladychatterley:  If you do amethyst, it is not as durable, so a bezel setting might protect the stone better.

I agree that purple sapphire is a great idea.  This is my fiancée’s custom ring, that I designed, with a blue sapphire as the central stone:

Post # 6
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2015


I’m a purple girl too, and we went with purple sapphire! My ring is in production so I don’t have it yet, but the stone is gorgeous and I’m really excited about it!

Post # 7
644 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 1988


This ring is STUNNING!

Post # 8
4476 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

My ring’s a blue lab created sapphire.  I agree with others that purple sapphire’s the way to go in this case.

Post # 9
2743 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

As others have said an amethyst is not a very durable stone. It is also not as brilliant as a sapphire or spinel. If cost is an issue consider a purple spinel. I have a purple color change sapphire and I love her.

An example of the colors this stone changes.

Post # 10
2734 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I initially wanted a gemstone too, and went for a smoky quartz ring. I believe it’s a 7 on the Mohs hardness scale. After a year, it had a few long scratches on it ๐Ÿ™ It also was a stone that attracted oil and dirt, and looked cloudy really fast after cleaning. I ended up going for diamonds and I am happy ๐Ÿ™‚ Although that is before I learned about moissanite, which I love!

Post # 11
12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I love the idea of a purple stone! It’s going to be GORGEOUS!

Post # 14
2743 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

@ladychatterley:  You can get lavender stones. I’ve seen very few lab purple or lavendar sapphires, and lab spinels are rarer. Is there a reason you’re going for a lab stone other than const?

Here are some good places to look at sapphires:

Many of these are untreated


These stones are ethically sourced. Larry Woods has won AGTA awards for his cuts. He does all types sapphires, and spinels included:


On etsy there is a seller called eidel precious that sells a lot of sapphire jewelery to the ladies here.


Post # 16
2743 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

@ladychatterley:  Definitely look at Larry Woods then. He goes to the mine sources his stones and then cuts them on his own. This is why they are also so cheap no middle man.

Another place to consider if you’re ethical and cost isnt a huge deal is http://www.krikawa.com

They are very big on ethical jewelery.

http://www.brilliantearth.com has some purple sapphires most are treated though but they are ethical as well.


Ethical was important to me as well we went krikawa and cutter direct for the stone through them. My stone was cut by Larry Woods ๐Ÿ™‚

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