(Closed) An open letter to my MOH

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Weetzie:  Sigh. That’s so heartbreaking. I’m sure there’s a part of you that wishes you could actually give her that. I would want to, I know that for sure. I hope you get through this wedding and your day is ultimately not affected by her behaviour. Hugs.

Post # 5
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.  Friend break-ups really suck.  Frown

Post # 6
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Weetzie:  I am so sorry!  That has got to be hard.  Sometime friend break-ups are even harder than relationship break-ups, because there is such a bond with best friends.  So sorry you are dealing with this, and trying to get through your wedding.

I am sure it felt better to “say” it, even if it’s pretend.  Sometimes ending a toxic relationship is better for both people, instead of trying to make it work when it won’t.  You’ll be better off in the long run, but HUGS for now.

Post # 7
127 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013


@Weetzie:  Wow really sorry to hear that, a break-up, any type of break-up is hard, but this might be something that should probably be left till after the wedding, for your own sake, that way you don’t have to deal with the drama in the final days leading up to the big day(i see your wedding is very soon so congrats btw <3). Unless you really don’t want her there anymore then telling her this is the way to go, I honestly doubt she would come after that, but it really sounds like you don’t really want her there now anyway which is totally understandable. Hope this works out for you and I hope it doesn’t bring you down, focus on the positive, even if the positive is knowing that she will be out of your life after the wedding. xox

Post # 8
79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am sorry that you’ve had to go through this, but also, congratulations! You just got married to the love of your life, you are trying to be the best wife and mother you can be, and you just got rid of a really negative force in your life. Cheers to new and positively happy beginnings

Post # 9
146 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Oh how this hits home for me…


Not only did my Maid/Matron of Honor back out but another long time friend who is a bm, is being a total brat. Not coming to my shower, not helping, she doesnt resond to anything I send her asking about her life (not wedding related)…I am just seeing her true colors as well. 


I am sorry you are going through this…wanna stand in my wedding and I’ll stand in yours? lol

Post # 10
730 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@Weetzie:  seriously, if she’s been that much of a crap bag, once it’s all said and done, I would totally PRINT THAT LETTER AND HAND IT TO HER!!!

but, that’s me bein’ a B….

I’m sorry she’s made it so rough for you!!!

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