(Closed) A Letter To Those Who Know a Waiting Woman.

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
302 posts
Helper bee


That does explain why I sometimes have questioned our relationship. I don’t think it’s so much that I don’t think we are going to make it as it is more of when people ask me and I don’t have an answer for them it makes me try to find an answer as to why we aren’t engaged and that leaves open questions. Then I start wondering if I’m good enough for him, and think maybe that’s why he hasn’t asked, and then the snowball just keeps rolling….

She wants him to realize he cannot live without her and just has to make her his wife all by himself.

This is so true. This is why I have vowed to stop asking him about it–because I dont want to feel like I made him do it, I want to know that he loves me enough that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me on his own accord, not because I annoyed him enough to do it.


Post # 4
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Love this.

Post # 5
293 posts
Helper bee

Amen, sister.  Couldn’t have said it any better myself. 🙂

Post # 6
1331 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016


Post # 7
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yup, you hit the nail on the head here! Perfectly said.

ETA: I honestly wish I could give this letter to everyone who asks when were going to get married!

Post # 9
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Fantastic work — SO true!  *claps*

Post # 10
1390 posts
Bumble bee

Yes. Just, yes.

Post # 11
1927 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

*Standing ovation*

They should put this on the TV as a PSA!!!!

Post # 12
3587 posts
Sugar bee

GREAT letter! I need to send this to everyone who asks me. I loved the part that says she has no control over it. EXACTLY!

Post # 14
2318 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Post # 16
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow this made me feel better, SO TRUE. 

I wish someone would give this to my coworker who asks to see my hand all the time AS IF I am hiding a ring!!!!!!!  Too bad the annoying asking people aren’t on these boards to know how we really feel LOL!

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