(Closed) And He didnt !! sorry need to vent!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1013 posts
Bumble bee

you have been with him 18 YEARS? holy moses! He might need a reality check.

Just be honest and let him know how important it is. MyFI (first time i’ve typed that!) had my ring for about 24 hrs before he proposed. He said he couldn’t wait any longer once he had it.

And it will be a perfect proposal no matter what. Because he will be saying he wants to spend his life with you. 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012 - Hacienda los Agaves

Hey if he already has a ring you know it’s happening, he maybe has something planned and probably doesn’t want to do it when you’re expecting it. I hope it happens soon. =)

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Not to be mean or anything… but 18 years? The only way I’d be ok with that is if we started dating when we first met, at the age of 8. And even then, I’d expect to be engaged before 26 if that were the case!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

18 years??????????? I would have dropped his a$$ YEARS ago!!!!

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I know how you feel–I SWEAR my Fiance was going to propose last summer at his grandparents’ house (they live on a lake up north, and it’s BEAUTIFUL at night because you can see the edge of the galaxy) and he didn’t. I totally admit that I cried when we got home. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

OP, did you mean that you’ve been friends with him for 18 years or you’ve been dating  for 18 years?

Like Miss Toadstool said, don’t lose hope – he might have something else in mind that’s better than what you’re expecting. And hey at least you know that he has the ring!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@nafarey7:  OH well then in that case you’re not being strung out like I had originally thought. Because 18 years to be in a relationship with someone is way too long to go without a proposal, in my opinion! I sure wouldn’t do it. But since you’ve only been together a year, AND you know he has the ring, you have nothing to worry about!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

@nafarey7:  Dont worry!! He hasn’t had it that long. ITS COMING!

Its so hard but try to enjoy things right now. And putting pressure on every outing only makes it worse. Good luck!!

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree, try not to worry! You know it’s coming! My fiance had the ring for over 6 months before he proposed to me (I didn’t know this until after he proposed though. I had a feeling it was coming but never knew for sure if he had the ring). We even went on a lovely vacation to Florida and I was CONVINCED he was going to propose while we were there and he didnt! He ended up proposing back in our home town at a beach we went to all the time when we were friends before we started dating, it was absolutely perfect! So trust that he has a plan to make your proposal perfect :]  All the waiting will be so worth it once he asks!

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