(Closed) and he says he loves me?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

did she reply to him? and you said you talked to him about it? what did he say?

Post # 4
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7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

That’s innappropriate. I could see if he was like “WE are not busy, come and see US.” but he wasn’t. It’s def flirting and he shouldn’t be doing it. What did he say about it?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Totally agree with Miss Tattoo. You are an “us” now. And I hope he defriended her or frankly, I would do it for him. (that’s just me). Hugs.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Speaking from experience, I would keep a closer eye on him for a little while just to make sure. I found tons of messages like that on my ex’s myspace to his friends ex girlfriend, and eventually found he had a whole “secret” account to talk to girls. 

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper

@sepeters06: I agree, ex or stranger the issue isn’t their relationship but the tone and topics involved in the conversation. I highly doubt you would be concerned if they were talking about baseball scores or the weather.

While I don’t agree with what he said it is possible he meant nothing by it, I don’t know him enough to make that assumption.

I understand the distrust and hurt feelings (I have been in a similar situation with an ex). I think at this point the best thing you can do is communicate with him how you feel but in a non-accusatory manner, the last thing you want to do is make him defensive which will lead to no where.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Men love attention. He is seeking out attention elsewhere. This would crawl under my skin as well. This just reminds me of the whole Weinergate situation. Men love to know that they are still attractive just like women do. I would try to bring this up as gingerly as possible to him. It would probably end up in an argument, but better out than in.

The only thing that I would worry about with bringing it up, would be that he would resort to even more secretive measures for attention.

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