(Closed) And i thought people asking for an invitation was rude ….

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 17
2684 posts
Sugar bee

Yeeaahhhhh that’s weird.  Pretty sure that being in a wedding party doesn’t require you to commit any infidelities against your spouse.  Or perhaps I missed the memo that she received.

Post # 18
1382 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

She is insane! With my cousin’s wedding, a GM’s wife was jealous he’d be paired with another woman, so she demanded to be a bridesmaid and paired with him, or that he not be in the wedding.  She was refused, and her husband stayed in the wedding.  So she threatened to ruin the wedding! My cousin was nervous, the crazy lady was invited as a guest, but ended up not coming which was probably for the best.  Thank goodness her threats to make a scene were empty!

Post # 19
10451 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

That’s crazy! I just… can’t even. 

Post # 20
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

To answer your question: Crazy people. Crazy people ask to be BM’s. There is a girl that lives with DH’s parents; she’s 23, and has a LOT of issues. They call her DH’s sister, even though he didn’t grow up with her and doesn’t even like her. When we were getting married, this girl asked me more than once to be a bridesmaid. I was offended at first, but I quickly realized that girl’s got issues and she doesn’t realize how inappropriate it is to ask something like that.

Post # 21
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i would have flat out said NO, you are implying that had dresses not be ordered, etc that she could be a Bridesmaid or Best Man. 


Post # 22
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow, I consider myself as a jealous person and I wouldnt have an issue with this! She has taken jealousy to a whole new level, haha. 

Post # 26
5950 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@MrsC2014:  Well, THAT just happened.  How does a person like this function?  Where’s the line?  Can his desk be next to another woman at work?  Can they be paired up on a project?  What if he’s in the line at the bank and it’s a female teller?  Or god forbid!  A female doctor?  How does one live AND keep their wife from getting upset?

Post # 27
947 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That’s really strange. I wouldn’t even know how to handle the situation because it’s just so damn ridiculous.

Post # 28
1248 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

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@MrsNewDay:  hahaha this!

she sounds way beyond jealous! What a psycho :O

Post # 31
2543 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@MrsC2014:  Lol, I’m just hoping and praying that she’s not that crazy! She sounds scary.

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