(Closed) And I was doing so well…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
5883 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

You have my permission to hit him on the head–really hard!

Post # 5
1830 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I have this theory that the worse it feels now while you’re waiting, the better it will feel once you’re engaged. Sort of like a reverse polarity lol. Just hang in there, at least you know he’s got the ring!

Post # 6
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

dude is an idiot- I would say don’t let it ruin your day but I know if that was said to me it would ruin mine, so I’ll just say “I feel ya”

Post # 7
3968 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Who says that???

Post # 8
748 posts
Busy bee

Ouch. That’s about as stupid as one of my friends’ husbands to her the day after the baby was born: “the baby is crying when you try to feed it. why does she not like you?”

ummm, yeah. Fail, and slap-worthy.

Post # 9
1133 posts
Bumble bee

What an ASS! No one has ever said that to me and I have plenty of friends who have been dating way less than us and I don’t see why that would be an issue. Rude friend you have πŸ™ Keep your head up! Seriously, there is nothing to be upset about πŸ™‚ Your man has the ring…..you WILL get it! πŸ˜€ That is sooo exciting! Try your very best to be patient love πŸ™‚

Post # 10
823 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I know it sucks to have someone say something like that to you, but at least you know a proposal is on its way! He has the ring! Don’t let stupid, rude comments like that get you down. 

Post # 11
316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Wow, guys can be stupid and clueluess! Sounds like life is a stressful mess right now, so ignore him, and focus on the positives. You’ve got a great guy, are going to be engaged soon, and it seems like you’ll be settled in your home before you get married. You’re doing what is best for you and your SO, and will be better off because of it =)

Post # 12
141 posts
Blushing bee

Men can be very insensitive.

He may not have been trying to be mean. Often men say things that may seem blunt or mean, but in fact they are trying to turn their (simple) thoughts into a real conversation. Perhaps he was trying to give a subtle hint that he thinks your man should mary you.

I think all the women of the world would be millionaires if they had a dollar for every time men said something insentive or stupid to them.

Post # 13
812 posts
Busy bee

@Mrs.SleepyKitty:  How did you manage to restrain yourself from punching him? Seriously well dont for not slapping him. What an awful question. It’s the worst question in the world and should be immediately banned

Post # 16
8 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

What a rude question!

Me and my fiance just now decided to get married, and last november we celebrated 10 years together! If you are happy together, you don’t need to have the paper about it and a ring on your finger.

We live happely together, many of our friends managed to marry and devorce and find a new love in this 10 years time, but we are still together. I remember a friend of my saying to my face ” Look i am getting married and you still not “. But gess what ? She is devorced!  Think about that! Marriege or engagement won’t make you happy, if something is wrong in the relationship nothing will save it. From your writing i feel everything is good with your man otherwise. So dont worry, you will get engaged when the time is right for you bouth and you will get married!

Look we finally decided, that it will be fantastic way to celebrate our love with the wedding, and whole our famely managed to loose hopes that this day will ever come hehe

Wishing you all the best sweety! <3

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