(Closed) and if I wasn’t going through enough……(long)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

she had no right to say those things. just decide what is best for you 🙂 maybe she is jealous, you get to spend every night with your Fiance, while she does not. nowadays i think almost all churches will marry couples who live together. so no worries on that score 🙂 if she mentions it again, say that you like being able to spend every night with your Fiance, and if she has such a problem with how your relationship is, she doesnt have to attend the wedding

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Well, at least your Fiance knows who he can’t talk to. I don’t think there’s much point in being friends with these people anymore. Everyone needs someone to talk to when there are relationship speed bumps. I’m personally very private, so I only discuss this with my mom….but MY pastor/priest told me if you find a married person who you trust it’s okay to talk to them too. So your Fiance had the right idea in confiding in him, it’s juts that he obviously didn’t take that conversation in confidence and was too judgmental and decided his Fiance needed to now it all. Sounds like she’s holding out on him? I mean, is this person really a virgin? If she is that’s great, that’s their choice and it’s the right choice for them obviously, but that’s not for everyone. 

It’s rediculous for her to think you can’t have a religious ceremony. Me and my Fiance live together and yes, we did get teh whole lecture when we met with our priest about cohabitating and whatnot, but after he worked with us doing premarital stuff, he realized how committed we are, how serious we are about marriage. 

Okay, yeah, I’m living in sin, you are living in sin, and I personally carry some guilt about it being a cradle catholic…but we are engaged, we WANT to live with our husbands and have a family in wedlock…she has some nerve to judge.

Some religious people have a very holier than thou additude that drives me up the wall.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

oops..double

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