Post # 1
That’s 2 mc for me, back to back. Not sure how I will find the strength to keep trying but I will eventually.
I just feel so defeated. And defective. I’m devastated.
I want so bad to be a mother. I don’t know why it’s so hard for us.
Darling Husband is so supportive. And he still believes we will be able to have a family. I’m having a harder time believing.
I love the support on this forum, I could use some support right now.
Post # 3
I am not TTCing though I have a very strong desire to be a mother myself… but cannot imagine the pain of a MC. I’m so sorry you are devastated. I am so, so sory for your loss.
Post # 4
I’m so sorry to hear this. Keep your chin up and take as much time as you need. You will be a mother keep telling yourself this. I’m sending you big hugs. If you need to pm me I’m here to listen a lot of bees including myself last month have been through this. Lots of support here.
Post # 5
I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine how you are feeling.
This may come as cold comfort, but I learned a few years ago that my Mother-In-Law had 5-6 miscarriages before she had two successful pregnancies with my BIL and Fiance. Just keep hope, I know it will happen for you.
Post # 6
I am so sorry!! It all seems so bleak now but it will happen and it will make it so much sweeter when it does. Take some time for yourself. Sending hugs your way!!
Post # 7
@Sunshine09: I’m so sorry. What an awful thing to go through 2x in a row. 🙁 I hope that your body will figure things out soon. I know of at least one other person from these boards that had back-to-back early miscarriages followed by a successful pregnancy… I hope that the same thing will happen for you. It’s great that you are getting pregnant, but I know (from personal experience) that you want to stay that way and what you are going through REALLY sucks. It will get better though. You will be in my thoughts… I’m glad your Darling Husband is supportive.
Post # 8
Oh no! I’m so sorry this happened to you. Can you see a dr to try and get answers? Definately praying for you & hubby and that you get a sticky bean in the future. *hugs*
Post # 9
Oh no, I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs!
Post # 11
*hugs* to you. I haven’t been there but I know plenty of women who have. My own SIL has a gap between #2 and #3… because she MC’d twice in between. I know (less well) someone who had 2 MCs before her first child was born. Many, many women have had children from where you are. Hugs and prayers for you.
Post # 13
@Sunshine09: I am so sorry! I know exactly what you’re going through – my Darling Husband and I also had 2 MCs before we successfully got pregnant. Don’t let it defeat you. You can survive and surpass this. It wont be easy and only time will make it pass. My thoughts and hugs go out to you and your DH!
Post # 14
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Oh Sunshine, I am so incredibly sorry. It’s horrible, and I’m so sad you have to go through it again. You’re in my thoughts.
Post # 15
you have my prayers. :: hugs ::
Post # 16
I am so sorry you are going through this 🙁 The overwhelming odds are that you WILL be able to have a family one day. You are not alone in having multiple losses in a row, this is more common than it seems. So many women go through this and go on to have healthy babies. I’m so glad you have your wonderful Darling Husband to be your support during this time!