(Closed) And it didn't stop.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 107
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30 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I don’t have any advice, just hugs.  

Post # 108
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6586 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I just wanted to say how sorry I am.  I feel for you so much.  My ex husband had an emotional affair that turned physical and left when our daughter was 3 1/2.  I was crushed.  But- I has to pick myself up for her and move on.  You do not need to be his doormat- you do not need to accept this behavior as normal.

Post # 109
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1494 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

If he tells you again that you’re the “psycho” for checking up on his texts… you should throw it right  back in his face that “well its not psycho since you HAVE PROVEN that you will break my trust. This is on YOU buddy and I will NOT let you throw it back on me. Period. End of story.” Let him know you see right through his bs with that line.

I am sending you hugs and I wish you all the best of luck in what you decide. My parents split when I was 3 and I’m ok too 🙂 We’re here for you!

Post # 111
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1559 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I don’t know what to say that everyone else hasn’t already said, but I hope you find the strength you need and the courage to change those locks and kick his ass out… be strong, sister, you can do it!

Post # 112
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1286 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Im so sorry you’re going through this… Your DH is being stupid… what the hell is wrong with him?

Leave him now.

Post # 113
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321 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’m so sorry. It breaks my heart to know that your husband is doing this to you and your family.   Don’t ever be scared to leave – if you are strong enough to leave him you are strong enough to move on and give your children an amazing life.

Shame on him and shame on that disgusting woman for knowingly getting involved with a married man. I know you may not have actual proof but it seems like you already know what’s going on.

And remember, if you were handed it you can handle it 🙂 you can get through it and meet someone who will love you more than that!

Post # 114
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@figgnewton:   I think between this and the ” G ” bullshit, I would be telling him to take a long walk….

You deserve so much better my darling. Take care of yourself, put you and your kids first. * HUGS *

 

Post # 115
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46 posts
Newbee

You are making me wish that I could break up with him FOR you!  I am really sorry this is happening, it is obviously an emotional affair that he is having.  That was a total di*ckhead move on his part also to call you names and blame YOU for his cheating, regardless of how you went about finding those texts….

The person who will treat you right and love you the way you are meant to be loved is out there waiting for you – getting rid of this douchebag husband of yours is just one stepping stone closer to finding the one you were SUPPOSED to be with <3

 

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