(Closed) …. and she refused to wear her dress. So now at under a month to go …

posted 9 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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368 posts
Helper bee

Hojeez. Do you have pics of the design and/or dress? I’m having Bridesmaid or Best Man issues with wearing/not wearing dresses too. And while you respect your sister and want her to be happy, I also think you need to be happy with the decision. After all, it’s YOUR day!! Good luck, everything will work out how it’s supposed to!! 🙂

Post # 4
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3098 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Oh no! I was that moh for my sister, heh! I was also a teenager at the time and the dress just didn’t fit – literally or age-wise. I was kinda a brat about it and now I feel bad. 🙁  But it was a really ugly dress!! 🙂 

Post # 6
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

sending hugs Ms H… you dont need this stress but hopefully the answer is nearby and this bump is quickly resolved

now… breathe… tell yourself its going to be OK….. eye on the prize remember, you and your Fiance, married and happy

 

Post # 8
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4382 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

Whaaaat? She needs a little sit down. I hope it all works out. Teenagers are so… fun. :p

Post # 9
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2344 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You are being a good sister – I would just say, “You’re wearing this dress, you brat!” Haha! 

Seriously though, I can see a really lovely pink dress looking great with a blue wedding. I love bits of contrast. We are having dark purple bridesmaids’ dresses and not much dark purple anywhere else – to me, its elegant in an unexpected way. So if you and your sister want to go that direction, I say do it! Or if you want to be mean and force her to wear the dress, do that too…

Post # 10
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258 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

You are being especially patient with her…kudos to you, this is not the time for this time of stress. However, the bright side is….she could have pulled this stunt the week before the wedding causing much more problems. So….if you can manke it work with a pink dress, go for it. She’s there weith you and you’re getting married to the man of your dreams. Make that special day about you and not her, let it go.

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think your sister is being selfish! She should just wear what you so graciously let her HELP YOU design. I mean, that is some generosity on your part. Hope it works out. I think pink and blue are nice colors by the way. And since she’s 16, I guess hot irridescent pink is super “in” now, at least according to my most recent Glamour =]

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