Post # 1
Well hive, it’s been about a month since I came to you venting about my situation and since so many of you offered me support, your personal experiances and opinions. I just wanted to provide you all with an update on FH and I’s progress and improvement in communication…
Within the last month FH has moved out of his parents house and into his own apartment, which is literally two miles from where I live! Moving out was the best thing for him and was a decision he came to all on his own. You can tell he is ‘relieved’ and ‘reaxed’ now. We have not only spent a lot more time together, but he is also spending more time with his friends and family since being on his own…which is great for not only us but also for him!!
I also mentioned about a week ago that we got our venue but have decided not to prusue booking at this point since FH was still unsure about keeping our original date and I did not want to pressure him (that’s not fair to both of us!). Well I have news on that too! I have decided not to talk wedding till the new year, but Future Brother-In-Law brought the subject up a few nights ago and we all talked about it briefly vaguely with him. That night and again the next day FH informed me he wanted to keep our date and plans as they are. Of course I was overjoyed! But it’s not all just about the wedding, so I told FH that we can still lay off the wedding talk for the holidays and just pick up where we left off in the new year…which still allows enough time to inform our guests and to make reservations.
These are just the most noticable improvements and the ones I was most excited to share! Thanks again to everyone who was able to help me talk through this situation. Just being about to say what I was going through out loud was enough for me, but your support and encouragement was beyond words! The hive is a truely awesome place when we all come together. I am excited for our wedding-hiatus to be over and to be back bouncing ideas off the hive!
Post # 3
aw that’s so good to hear! Congrats to you
Post # 4
That’s excellent news– I’m glad that you two seem to be in a better place, harmony all around! 🙂
Post # 5
I’m so glad to hear things have worked out for the best!
Post # 6
THis is good news. You normally can’t tell a person’s ‘tone’ via emails/posts, but yours came across as sounding relieved AND happy.
I’m happy for you…and him!
Post # 7
Very happy news! Thanks for the update.^^
Post # 8
Awww. I’m so glad! You sound so upbeat and I’m thrilled for you that things are falling into place. You and FH are certainly adding depth and strength to your relationship.
Congrats and thank you for the update!
Post # 9
wooo hooo!!! I am so glad things are progressing so well 🙂 and your Fiance sounds like he’s in a much healthier place, which, ultimately, is the most important thing. 🙂
Happy for you both!!!
Post # 10
That’s great news. I’m really happy it turned out so well. Have a great holiday season 🙂
Post # 11
Awwwww. YAY! That’s fantastic news, I am happy for you!!
Post # 12
I am so glad with time things are working out!!!!!
Post # 13
Awww that’s great! So glad to hear it’s all going to work out! Congrats!
Post # 14
This is good. 🙂 I’m so happy for you!!
Post # 15
- Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch
Glad things are getting straightened out! Look forward to hearing more about your planning in the new year. 🙂
Post # 16
Thanks everyone!! We are still working on things (as everyone can always be doing) since there is always room for improvement. I forgot to mention that FH has also come over to see his pups which he hasn’t done in awhile either. He misses those little furballs