- 10 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
This may be thee strangest story ever to hit the weddingbee boards and ill try my best to explain it like it happened…
Sunday Taylor proposed to me and everything in the world was right with a shade of pink covered the land. For an hour, and then I got an facebook private message that passed through to my phone telling me in great detail that my new fiancee has been cheating on me with “ms. anonymous” herself. Telling me about the hook ups the way she still wants to see him and how they havent talked in weeks after getting into a fight. That was her reasoning for finding me… she searched for him found out he was in a relationship from fb and msg’d me. Now this girl went through the trouble of creating not only a fake facebook but also a fake yahoo messenger account (to harass me)! She goes on to tell me more and more in following messages getting me *of course* more and more upset. She just had to make sure I knew my bf was a cheater 20 thousand time. Meanwhile my fiancee is denying it and promises to me up and down he doesn’t know her he wouldn’t even have time to see anyone and he thinks someones just trying to hurt us.
After a while I decide to pick out things that are flawed in their msg’s and things that fit with her story compared to our lives. 1. she said she met him at a unimart, when I asked where it just so happened to be right down the street from our house. 2. I asked when they would meet (knowing he never has time to even sit down…) she had a perfect answer… on his way home from work, this i’d never know because he has various start/end times each day and they’re random. Now for the flaws… 1. she couldn’t remember certain details like times they saw each other and everything was in 3’s. they met 3 months ago they hooked up 3 times and they havent spoken in 3 weeks. 2. she wasn’t just bent on me knowing the truth she was bent on me dumping him 3. she found new ways to msg me even after she’d been blocked because she was mad I didn’t believe her, not the way a concerned person would warn someone of danger the way a psycho person would stalk someone just to provoke them.
Finally I talked to her in a yahoo messenger where I seemed to have struck a cord and she called me various names until I just blocked everything… I mean everything, I shut down all my stuff to get rid of her. Then I sat down and thought a lot about it all and cried.
My fiancee was very upset I would believe any of this but I’m not a stupid girl and my previous fiancee was acussed of cheating and for 2 months denied it before he FINALLY came clean. I had my guard up and I spent pretty much the past 3 days crying.
Tonight however this girl sent me yet another message asking if “i was there?” and saying she felt guilty… ok now I’m confused! She sat here for 3 days rubbing this horror story in my face now she feels guilty… this is where my fiance starts talking to her asking who she is (which she still hasn’t told me). She starts telling both of us in different message boxes how AP put her up to this and she didn’t want to be the cause of our break up.
BREAK THROUGH… AP is my ex fiance…
Ok now were getting somewhere… she goes on to explain how they got drunk and thought it would be funny to do this to us. She said he begged her to do this till she finally caved. But now she says she’s done with it she’s done with him and called him more names than I think I ever have, lol.
I however don’t know if I’m believeing all of this either though. She said they got drunk that night but she sent me the 1st message about an hour after we posted on our fb’s that we were engaged which was 1pm in the afternoon. She also said AP will deny having had her do this and take it to the grave… like that would keep me from asking him if he has set this up. Strange. But why did she decide after 3 days to finally break down and tell me everything? **and still won’t tell me who she is**
Either way I guess it all seems pretty logical except for the psycho stalker part of it which clearly was my ex… creepy much?!?! Way to show your jealousy right? But jeez I haven’t talked to him in almost a year, where did this come from?
Well now here I sit hurt confused and questioning a lot more than I ever thought I would… like how well do you know anyone because everyone is capable of cheating. And paranoid little me whose been through this and seen how far some people will go to keep you in the dark just has that tiny thing in the back of my brain saying it all fits but fiancee could have easily set this ending up too. After all he’s the one who kept saying it seems like something my ex would do from the beginning even when I explained to him it could have been one of his friends but not AP cause the spelling and grammar were perfect. I know it’s just me being scared now because I’ve been down that road at least 6 times now but EVERYONE agreed this person must be crazy even his sister said it’s all false because fiancee is really a great guy.
Good news is the stalking female has left the building and things are semi back to normal.
I really just had to get that off my chest because this has been thee worst week of my life and it all started with a simple engagement. =/ Maybe I shouldn’t tell the world when we get married *I wouldn’t wanna ruin our honeymoon*