(Closed) …and thats when she told me she’s been seeing my fiancee

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
14492 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That may be one of the most cold hearted things I have ever read.  I have a few ex’s that would go to that extreme, thank goodness it was in the days before FB.  I would really just blow it off as a horrible prank of jealousy and vileness. 

On the other side of the coin:

YYYYYAAAAYYYYY! Your Engaged! Congrats!

Post # 5
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

First Congrats!

Secondly I cant believe someone could be SO cavalier about other people’s lives, let alone their feelings. Talk about not having any sense of decency here!

I hope the individuals causing this understand the hurt they caused and are feeling rightly guilty. Im so sorry these people tried to take a bit of your happiness away from you. Your man has been honest to you up to this day, and you gotta put your faith in him and know that with all this insanity, he was the one person who was consistant and there for you.

Again, congrats!

Post # 6
179 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Wow! That’s a story for a talk show!

AP sounds very manipulative, and I almost feel bad for this poor girl who probably only pulled this prank to get his attention/respect/love/whathaveyou. At least she finally came to her senses.

Try to put this behind you- and get on with the wedding planning!

(And… perhaps you might not want to put your honeymoon destination on Facebook. Haha. Just Kidding. Sort of.)


Post # 7
2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Congrats on your engagement!

I am sorry to hear you went through this. Not a great way to start off your engagement, is it. What a terrible ex! People like that make me cringe!

Post # 8
2312 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I cannot believe people in real life do this stuff.

Post # 9
6350 posts
Bee Keeper

I am so sorry someone did this to you. I remember reading your engagement story and how happy you were. I am so sorry this has been tainted for you.

Post # 10
5843 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

First, congrats on you engagement! Second, people never cease to amaze me. This is one of the most awful things I’ve ever heard.

Post # 11
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011 - Blossom Heath

This has to be the worst thing that I have ever heard. Who intially helps sabatoge something that is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life? I’m glad that things worked out the way they did for you… She was wrong for even going through with it.

Anyway… Congrats! You’re Engagement! Just be mindful of info posted on fb from now on.

Post # 12
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I can’t believe someone could be so horrible! Surprised

Congrats on your engagement, and try not to let this crazy person ruin such a happy time for you!

Post # 13
1575 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

OMG!  This story doesn’t even seem real… your ex is a real Bitter Betty.  I’m so sorry that this happened to you & your Fiance…. what a way to ruin the warm fuzzy after-effects of a proposal!

I’m glad that Ms. Anonymous decided to come clean with you though…

Post # 14
2390 posts
Buzzing bee

Go to the police. It’s aboslutely illegal to do something like that to someone-its considered internet stalking and they can get in real trouble for it. The police can trace the IP address of the computer being used and likely trace it back to the user. You should have a record of everything that was said, and that way you can find out who it was and what actually happened setting your mind at ease.

Post # 15
238 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Congrats on the engagement and good luck keeping this kind of cray cray from coming back!! That is just truly awful.

Post # 15
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I know it’s difficult having only your FI’s word to go on, but that’s all you have. You’re really never going to have solid proof one way or the other. I’ve been cheated on before too and it makes you so suspicious and then if something outrageous like this happens, it’s really hard to believe your Fiance when he’s swearing up and down that he didn’t do anything wrong.

The only thing you can do is talk to him openly and honestly. Tell him your fears, explain why you’re having a hard time believing him, explain that you’re so scared it’s true that’s it’s difficult to accept that it isn’t, tell him how much you want to marry him and be with him for the rest of your life but that this issue can’t just be ignored. Have him look you straight in the eye and tell you the truth.

You’ve just gotten a huge shock and, true or false (although it really seems false to me from what you’ve said), he needs to be loving, understanding and reassuring. You need to work through this together.

Good luck with this. I’ll be thinking of you.

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