(Closed) And then I burst into tears…

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1044 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m so sorry all this crap keeps happening. *hugs*

Post # 4
7429 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Umm wow that totally blows.  ((HUGS))

I hope it gets better

Post # 5
18628 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh no I’m so sorry!  Take it one step at a time.  I’m sure you can find a veil on Etsy, mine shipped so quickly.

Post # 6
6391 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Major, major hugs dear. I’m so sorry that all this is happening!

Post # 7
3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Nothing but hugs for you!!!!!!!

Post # 8
1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wow, you have really been through the ringer! I’m so sorry to hear that so much bad stuff has happened all at once.

I know this is probably the least of the issues, and was just the one thing that pushed you over the edge, but could you borrow a veil from a friend???

Post # 9
3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011


None of this is fair. Are there any other bridal salons that you can go to that sell veils right off the rack? even if you have to drive a couple hours? 🙁

I know that isn’t going to make it better, but just an idea. Also, how big is your venue? Could you use a CD player with some big speakers borrowed from a friend or family member? Would that even be loud enough?

Post # 10
826 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh hun I am so so sorry.  Can we help you look for veils?  Or help with anything?  ((((hugs)))))

Post # 11
390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@helenberrycrunch: I’m so sorry <3 A priest told my mom she needed to have babies and I think it was a mistake. Don’t let anyone try to make you feel bad for that. I would elope.

Post # 12
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Oh dear. That’s a lot to deal with. Do you have some friends who can come over and talk it all through with you? Call a buddy, order some pizza, and take it one thing at a time. 

Post # 13
865 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I am so sorry this is happening to you! Hugs to you dear! Just pray and everything will wokr out just fine!

Post # 14
10846 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

((hugs)) I would have dissolved into tears ages ago. I’m very proud of you that you’re only crying now!!! You’re a strong lady, you’ll get through it! How’s your dad?

Post # 15
15063 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

omg, I nearly lost my breathe holding it hoping the bad news would stop! =( 

Have you check ebay for veils?  I just got mine from VenusVeils… super cheap (23 bucks) and I got it in a week.

Post # 16
4822 posts
Honey bee

I know I cant fix anything, but maybe, just maybe people here can help.

Have you checked Etsy for a veil? they may be able to rush make/mail one to you!

As for a sound system- whats your venue? Could you use stereo speakers and an ipod that someone may have?

Maybe you could ask a local DJ who is not booked to rent their equipment? Just start calling around. If they arent working, they can make some easy money.

Your stepfather will get lots of prayers and positive wishes from all of us here. Just because something is potentially fatal, doesnt mean it is. I have a fatal heart condition for most people, but for me its not.  Don’t undersestimate positive attitude, the will to live and doctors skills! I will be sending positive vibes for you.

Did your mom have insurance for the roof? It sucks. It really does, but hopefully it can be fixed without costing your family money. Unfortunately there isnt insurance for stress, but look at the good side. A new roof will be stronger, and wont need new shingles for a long time!

I am sorry. I know how it can all add up and I am not trying to trivialize the problems by offering possible solutions/advice. But trying to look at each one indivisually instead of as a group can make them less stressful and more manageable.

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