(Closed) And…He is gone =(

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3526 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

AW. πŸ™ Why does he have to leave today? What if he leaves Sunday night and you guys did a early Easter? Can he come back for your surgery in May?

Post # 4
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Oh man that sucks!! I’m so sorry πŸ™ Hopefully he’ll be able to find work closer to you soon. Regarding the surgery… do you have family and/or friends that could be there with you? From what I understand the first 2-3 days you really need help around the house. 

Post # 6
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

im sorry to hear that he wont be there for your surgery…hopefully you have someone to take care of you for about 3 days after…my fiance had to take off 3 days after my surgery to help me. Hope you feel better!

Post # 8
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

so do you have an estimation at all of when he’ll be home next? like, to stay for a while? or is he constantly ‘on the road’ while working?


do you get a chance to keep in pretty good touch while he’s gone?

Post # 9
3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

oh shannon! great that he got a job, so sorry that he has to leave tho! I hope your surgery goes ok, and at least you have family around for support.


Post # 10
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m sorry hunny.  That is a big bummer.  It sounds like you have a good support system to help you though πŸ™‚

Post # 11
382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

hang in there, girl! i know how you feel to some respect — my fiance is an officer in the air force and is gearing up to deploy for 6 months, come june 1st. it is so hard to have them be gone! it’s also tough to have people tell you, “at least you’ll have your family & friends … etc.”  — which is true, it’s wonderful to have them around for company & support! but, we know there is no replacement for our guys! just remember that he’d be there if he could and he will be thinking of you! he’s lucky to have a woman in his life that is as understanding & supportive of him & his line of work. πŸ™‚

Post # 14
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

πŸ™ I’m sorry to hear about this! it’s a new set of challenges and while I can see how great this is for the family, it has to be hard on you and your child. We are hoping for an easier solution for you guys as soon as possible, but in the meantime you can come here any time and vent!

Post # 15
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry he is leaving but I’m sure that he is doing it for the improvement of your relationship.  Do you have any other family members that can go with you to the surgery?  The doctors won’t let you go there alone.  If you have a family member, it won’t be as good as him but it won’t be bad!  You don’t really remember much of it anyway!

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