(Closed) Angry and bitter over what seems like nothing (long)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

First of all, I completly get where you are coming from. It really sucks when family doesnt act like family. I think you have two choices here. First, let it go, continue with your wedding and if they mess up know that it is their fault not yours.  Second, you elope (or have a smaller wedding) where you do not invite them. 

Both of these choices have pros and cons but, remember this; if you choose the second the repercussions could last your whole life. If you choose the first, the added stress is only for 10 weeks.

Once you make this decision, let it go. It is the only thing you can do. You will not change them, so you should not try to. Normally I would suggest talking to them about it but, you said they have been letting them down his whole life. I know a few parents like this, and can almost guarantee speaking to them would only make it worse (although it could be different in your case. Make the choice, let it go, and stop worrying about it! You are getting married regardless of who is there to stand by your side or not.

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