(Closed) Angry at Mother. Help?? (yes, vent) (also, NWR)

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Well what are you wanting to happen? You know that you can’t change her, are you just mad about the insurance?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m sorry you are dealing with this! Unfortuntely in these situtions the only thing you can do is cope with it or learn how to let it not get to you. People have to hit rock bottom before they will get their ish together and it doesn’t sound like she’s there yet. 

The otherday I heard something that really put things into perspective for me… you can’t expect your (mom, dad, family, insert disappointing person here) to be anything other than who they are. Just go in with the expectation of this is how this person is and I can’t let it affect me so much. 

I have the tendancy to let what my family does really get to me and internalize it. So I do empathize with you! I wish you the best!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

some people just refuse to accept professional help, either with medication or therapy. my parents are like this, they just choose to self medicate. perhaps this is your mom’s way of not dealng with the issue.

any chance you can get your own insurance?

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