(Closed) Angry letter from my in-law

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

wow…i would DEFINATELY put her in her place after that!

Post # 78
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Honey bee

It sounds as if she likes to create her own drama. There’s no reason why you can’t keep a wedding phot of the two of you up for as long as you want!

Post # 79
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Helper bee

Maybe suggest she take up some type of hobby. That way she can play cards  or Bingo and relax, with people her own age. Instead of spending her day on YOUR FB trying to crap on your happiness! WT? Crazy old bat.

Post # 80
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

She’s insane!  Should you also not display wedding photos in your home?  Are you supposed to immediately dispose of your dress?

 

Post # 81
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Whoa, that’s one for the books!  I hope you can see all this happen and laugh about it.  She’s obviously looney tunes!  So its no indication of what you and your husband are doing, its just that she has a few screws loose.  That’s a shame, but there’s nothing either one of you can do to fix it. 

Post # 82
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

WOW, she sounds craaaaaaaazy. Oh, and someone should tell her that the term “tube steak” means something different than what she THINKS it means, lol.

Who knew there was a statute of limitations on when you can post wedding pics. I know people who leave them up forever! Aside from them providing you with a memory of a happy day in your life- given the cost of wedding photography these days, why would someone only leave them up for a week or two?

Your hubby’s Aunt has been drinkin’ the crazy juice fo sho. 🙂

Post # 83
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

OMG she was even “offended” by your SIGNATURE?

What the heck? He’s her “heir.” My god, i didn’t know you married into royalty!

And stop prancing around in that virginal white gown, it’s unseemly.

Really, this woman is nutty. She obviously has a lot of time to creep you on facebook. You should block her ASAP and have Fiance tell her that SHE is the one overstepping her boundaries.

Post # 84
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Omg I can’t even believe someone is that crazy. She’s insane!!!!! I can’t even understand how in the world she created all of these issues in her head.

Post # 85
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Helper bee

Wow, is all I can say really…wow. I can’t believe this ISN’T the worst of it!!! you poor girl!! And you know what got me thinking? Was when your aunt wrote about how she’s not trying to insult you, but is sure that she has, and she was just trying to be honest. I totally agree with you when you say “if you have nothing nice to say…”. Where does she get off? And good for your husband for taking a stand and deleting her too. I’m so glad you have a wonderful and supportive husband.

You know what’s interesting about this? Is that so many people hide behind the guise of “I’m just being honest” or “this is just the way I am” in order to say whatever they want to people and act however they want to. My Mother-In-Law does this. But what they really means is they don’t care how they make people feel when they say these horrible things like she has to you, and by her bringing up some sort of inheritence it makes it sound like she expects you two to let her say and do anything just so you can get some money when she dies. That is ridiculous. No amount of money is worth being treated like less then a person. You both deserve better then that. The person who’s missing out here is really her, because she’s not getting to be a part of your wondrerful new family you and your husband have made. She doesn’t deserve the both of you. That is soooo her loss.

I’m sorry that you have to endure this. Know that you are not alone. And that you have a husband and family/friends around that love you. Not to mention the hive that all think she’s wacko!! 😉

Post # 86
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I just…I can’t believe…I……..::speechless::

Post # 87
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Wow. It sounds like there is some underlying grudges here or more to the story. Or this woman has flipped. So sorry. No matter what the situation this is no manner to approach you about it. I’ve never heard of someone being so judgmental about every single aspect of someones life. This is not healthy.

Post # 88
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

B*tch is CRAZY

Post # 90
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

That’s just crazy. I think she’s off her rocker. I definately wouldn’t respond. How could you even respond to that?? Where would you even begin?? Your husband/in-laws should deal with that. You shouldn’t have to even speak with her…I think that her mentioning your husband as her only heir is definately a concern. She sounds extremely controlling and I would avoid at all costs, if possible.

I still have a wedding pic as my profile pic on Facebook, too. 🙂

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