- 4 years ago
Hi – i’ve posted my story on here before and, well, I’m in a bad place as of late.
Earlier this year, I moved out of my boyfriend of 3 year’s house. We agreed to stay together but he decided to take an exit plan and line up the next girl in my place as soon as I was out. He hid it from me and lied to me for months, while I began to slowy lose my mind because we wouldn’t see each other, he wouldn’t talk to me or acknowledge our problems and basically one day I found out that we are actually not even together any more.
Well come May, I discover this other girl and all of this shit that has been happening this entire year. All of his lies came out, etc. I confront him, he doesn’t do anything about it (obviously). I tell him if he wants to work things out with me has until June to figure it out. Come June, he starts calling me non stop wanting to see me, trying to talk things out, etc. and then says his intentinos are to get back together. FOOLISHLY I believe him.
In the meantime, I find out he is still with the girl. Yes, I met him behind her back knowingly and part of it was because I don’t knwo what it is he wanted to talk to me about but obviously after 3 years of being with someone, you’d think their heart is with you and they realized they made a huge mistake. He told me about how she is not for him how Iam the love of his life, yada yada.
Lots of back and forths and I got sick of the fact that he was still with her. I told him if he was serious about me to not contact me unless he was single again. We went without contact for 2 weeks.. and then mid July he reappears saying he is single, but is not ready to get back together because the break up is still fresh (imagine my surprise when he says this and he gave our relationship 0 time to recover). And then……….. he disappears. Again.
Today, against my better judgement (yes, it has been 1 month since that incident and a total of 2-3 weeks since we’ve spoken where he told me he was still single on the phone) I check this girl’s instagram and see they are still together.
I am livid. I don’t even care about her – I am just really pissed at him for toying with my heart all of this year, for pulling my strings, for being so immature at 35 years old and pulling this shit. I literally want to tell the gril what has been going on and how he cheated on ME and then he cheated on her with me and yada yada. I just don’t want him to get out of this with anything good. I’m so mad. But at the same time I know I’m mad and I know this may not be the best choice / decision. So I came here to ask for your input. I’d like to say let karma play its course but I am so angry grrrr…. really don’t want him to get away with this.