(Closed) Angry with my husband – RANT

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee

they are dumb.  my Boyfriend or Best Friend has lost his phone twice and he had to contact me from his dad’s phone or a friend’s.  once his friend pushed him into a bush and somehow the bush must have eaten his phone – never found.  another time, it slipped out of his pocket in a cab.

 

that is really frustrating.  when he comes back, calmly talk it over with him, the situation could have been handled differently.  all will be well 🙂

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

“Boys are dumb.” – This made me laugh. I think we’re with the same guy.

This is something my SO would totally do, so I feel your frustration. I say let it go, and enjoy the three days you have to yourself. Maybe hang out with some girlfriends, do stuff that you want to do, and have fun! It will be great to have him come home and you’re totally relaxed.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh, man, that would drive me nuts, too!    *Sheesh*  !!!

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I really don’t think this would be an issue for me. People used to be incommunicado all the time before cell phones.

Peace and quiet while at the lake with his buddies would be great. We’re all big girls and can manage a weekend on our own.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

LOL…when SO and I had just started dating, or maybe just before we started dating, he went through 8 phones in 6 months.  Dropped two in the lake while working on the old boat, accidently (?) threw one out the car window driving down the road, and lost the rest.  He’s been good lately about it even if he can’t figure out how to use his Droid.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@julies1949:  Agreed. If there was an emergency, I’m sure his buddies have working cells. He could have gone out of his way to fix the phone before he left, but he didn’t, so no use in being angry with him. 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t get mad over this— he’s a big boy, and he needs to learn to take care of his things. I’m not his mommy.  If he can’t figure out how to take his phone to get fixed, then he will need to figure out how to live without a phone.  And a few days without a phone will teach him how and when to get the phone fixed. 

As for the being incommunicado, I’d not be angry over that either. I don’t want him on an electronic dog collar. If he”s going away with his friends, then he should spend his time enjoying them, not checking in with me repeatdly. I enjoy going away with my friends and not having to check in all the time. We trust each other and while I do like to get an occasional, unexpected I Love You text, I actually quite enjoy it when he’s NOT in constant contact– that means he’s having a good time and enjoying himself!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I was gonna say.  FI annoyed me when he went on his trip back to where we are from for 6 days and didnt bring a charger on purpose (he says he has forgetten too many and all chargers are universal now anyway).  But he called me every night before he went to bed because it helped him sleep and sometimes during the day.  It was nice to have the time apart but it was also nice to know I was on his mind.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Bah. I agree with you, boys are dumb sometimes.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

He’s having a guys weekend.  Let him have a guys weekend. 

He should spend this time enjoying hanging out with his friends, not spend it staring at a little screen.  Tell him to put the phone away and get back to his friends.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Mrs. Mink:  +1  I love Fiance more than anything, but I value our time without each other almost as much as I value our time together.

Hopefully the whole battery issue this weekend will motivate him to replace his phone! Lol.

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