(Closed) Angry.Devastated.Confused.Vent.

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Has he woken up and cleaned himself up yet? He better be apologizing to you, but it is a one time thing. 

Post # 48
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Where I am from the legal drinking age is 18 – so most people I know have at least one really embarrasing booze-related anecdote. I have a few, nothing as serious as sleeping on the loo floor and pooping my pants though. LOL. I have been fuming angry with drunken friends and bfs though so I feel your pain.

 

Agree with beachbride1216 though, alcohol poisoning is no joke, and it would be a good idea to be mindful of that.

 

Good luck.

Post # 49
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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@mrschmura:  I agree that the friend has much more responsibility in driving drunk that the Fiance does. He might have not realized the friend was so drunk too and/or he was already thinking “oh shit I’m way too gone” and was singleminded about getting home. 

I would insist on him making cab/limo/DD arrangement before the bachelor party though…and for any other night he plans to go out drinking. But I doubt he’s going to be able to stomach booze for a good long time after this.

Post # 50
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Any update??

Post # 51
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

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@beachbride1216:  +1

This is what I was thinking reading the OPs updates. Hope they are both okay!

Post # 52
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@maya2008:  Has he arisen from the erm, mess he’s in? Hope you’re ok!

Post # 54
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Glad to hear he is doing alright!! I totally understand as if I were in your shoes, I would have been pissed and then annoyed as well. If this is a one time thing though, I wouldn’t worry either. (and oh my goodness, I can not imagine the smell/sight of having to clean crap off of my FH as he’s passed out in a drunken mess..you have a stronger stomach than I!!) I’m sure he will be extremely embarrassed already to hear that he was puking/peeing/pooping all over himself!!

Post # 55
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Glad he made it through the night. sounds like you took good care of him. Fwiw, I would have been pissed too.

Post # 56
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I bet with the hangover he has today he will think twice about partying that hard again anytime soon!

Post # 57
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Busy bee

@maya2008:  I have had alcohol poisoning once, and it was so bad that I learnt my lesson. I’m sure your Fiance will be the same. I too have gone out for a couple of drinks, that turned into a few too many drinks and home later than anticipated – as has my SO. When you’re having a few drinks and talking, time does fly. Your Fiance rarely drinks so it’s not surprising that he reacted in this way – his body isn’t used to it. It doesn’t mean he will turn into an alcoholic. Yes, he did a stupid thing by getting into a car with someone who had been drinking and I assure you, he will look back and realise how stupid and dangerous it was. Keep an eye on him and have a chat to him once the hangover from hell disappears. If it’s out of character, don’t be too angry. He’s probably embarrassed himself enough not to ever do it again!

Post # 58
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I think its all about peer pressure. He was with the guys… maybe it’s a one time thing, I bet he will feel so bad in the morning that he will reconsider doing it again! Don’t yell at him when he wakes up, listen to his story first, and tell him that you are not confortable with what happened and that you were disappointed.

I don’t think you should read to much into this, things happen, people make mistakes 🙂

 

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