(Closed) Anniversary Let Down

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

heh.  Oddly enough our 4 yr anniversary was feb 27th.  We dont live together so all day I was waiting for him to call me.  No phone call, at all.  I sent him a text message to wish happy anniversay, which you forgot.  He text back wishing me a happy anniversary too, as if he didn’t forget or anything, HA!  Then I wanted us to celebrate it that weekend which he agreed to.  But then the day of, he tells me he picked up a shift at work.  WTF?  But then he took me out last night for it.  So now all is forgiven.  But I completely understand how you felt

Post # 4
1585 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sounds a lot like my first anniversary… FH spent the whole day on his computer while I was on the couch… I was pissed.  So when it got closer to our next anniversary I told him that I would like to do something…

We ended up getting engaged on our next anniversary which made up for anything that went wrong on the first one.

But I understand your pain when you are hoping for your anniversary to be perfect and he does nothing…. keep your chin up… it may be part of his confusion campaign to pop the question.

Post # 5
1260 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Awe Curly Dreamer, that stinks! He was being super inconsiderate of your feelings. Have you told him how you feel? I think you were a stand-up gal for giving up your anniversary day to let him go out with his friends, but he kind of blew it making it up to you. What anniversary is this for you both as a couple? As the years go by, guys can become complacent…perhaps he just needs a little reminder of how awesome you are, and how he shouldn’t take you for granted 🙂

Post # 6
1079 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Why don’t you tell him this is something that’s really important to you. Maybe he didn’t get that.

Post # 7
1602 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

yeah that definately is frustrating.

i don’t think guys in general understand this stuff.

my SO was gone valentines day, will be gone the weekend of my birthday, and the whole week of our anniversary. when i said i was upset it was all about “we can celebrate it another time can’t we?”

sorry it had to happen though!

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