Anniversary trip or wedding?

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: What would you decide to do?
    Go to the wedding and celebrate the anniversary that city. : (14 votes)
    93 %
    Decline the invitation to the wedding and keep the anniversary plans. : (0 votes)
    Attend the wedding and try to find a way to keep the original anniversary plans as well. : (1 votes)
    7 %
    Other : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
    Member
    5857 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2018

    This is totally up to you and neither is right or wrong. Personally I would attend my friends wedding and just go to the wedding B and B the following weekend because I don’t place a huge importance on celebrating on the actual day. 

    Post # 3
    Member
    1537 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    If you can cancel it easy enough then I’d go to the wedding.

    Post # 4
    Member
    369 posts
    Helper bee

    I agree that you should go to the wedding and then go to the b&b the following weekend if you can!

    Post # 5
    Member
    4664 posts
    Honey bee

    As long as you can cancel the B&B without losing a deposit, I would go to the wedding.

    Your anniversary will always be special no matter where you are because it is the day you got married.  The B&B will always be special no matter what day you go there because you got married there.  Those two things don’t have to coincide to be special.  

    Meanwhile, your friend is only getting married once (hopefully), you want to see them get married, celebrating someone else’s love seems like a special enough way to celebrate your own, and it is a good excuse to go somewhere you’ve been wanting to go anyway and turn it into a long weekend getaway 

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