- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
I am pretty laid back as a bride. I have given the gals full reign on what thier dress and shoes are for the wedding (gave them a color and told them semi-formal) and that I didn’t care if it was something already in thier closet (color is black).
For the most part I don’t expect anything out of the out of towners (2 of them) except to be here the Saturday before the wedding preferably before 2pm. I am paying for the manicures, since I wanted everyone to be in the same hotel the night before the wedding I am paying for a hotel room for all of them (IE 2 suites at a residence inn) I am gifting them their jewlery as well as bags for them with other goodies and dinner the night before the wedding, I am not expecting the out of towners to even be at the rehersal as I know the economy sucks and stuff is tight.
I have one bridesmaid that is out of town, her daughter is supposed to be my flower girl, I have sent this gal message after message on FB and email and only 1 response telling me she is having a rough time right now but to keep her in the list. I keep emailing her asking her if she is ok, what is going on, is there anything I need to know what does she need from me… and nothing. I happened to be on FB and noticed she was on so I initated a chat with her asking her if she is ok and she immediatly sighned off chat. I got off FB and went back 5 minutes later to find her back on chat again I messeged her “how are you doing?” Nothing.
I am extreemly frustrated. Our other friend is coming from Texas, this gal is 3 hours away in Central Virginia. and so far pretty much only has to pay for gas to and from which is 2 tanks (maybe). Which isn’t bad for a flipping wedding party member.
I just want her to be honest with me and tell me what is going on.