(Closed) Annoyed. How is this even possible?

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Something in the water? lol

Sorry couldn’t help it.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I dont see how this is a bad thing… I would be happy for everyone…

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

sorry, i’m not following why it would be upsetting either. did it put a damper on the drinking and party? i hope the two that didnt know didnt have too much to drink!

edit, didnt see your post in time.  do you have a reason to fear that you cant?

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@SFreeman2187: Oh well Im sorry to hear that and that completly changes the whole thing.

but “You never know until you try”

I hope that when you and your Hubby start trying you get that little baby quickly but You should just have fun trying 🙂

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

My husband I aren’t ready to start trying for a couple more months, (he’s confident we’ll get pregnant right away, and I am afraid it will take a long time).  And it seems like all of my friends and coworkers are tuning up pregnant.  Major jealousy here, so I understand where you’re coming from!  I don’t WANT to be, but I can’t seem to help it.  I have seriously been tempted to block or unfriend a couple of my Facebook friends because of it, and then I feel worse for even thinking that way.

*hugs*

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper

@SFreeman2187: Sorry your feeling down. {{cyber hug}}

Just curious how is your friend starting to be a selfish bitch?

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

wait my post just dissapeared!

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Anyway I dont know how long you have been TTC but everybody is different just try to stay positive, I dont think feeling annoyed or resentment towards your friends will help you any.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m sorry you are feeling this way. I understand the jealousy part, we’ve ALL been there. But if they are YOUR friends you should be happy for them.

My husband and I were both convinced that we would have fertility issues. We went 8 years with the “pull out” method and never once had an accident. We actively TTC for 9 cycles and after much heartache finally got a BFP. I’ve been where you are, “you don’t know where I am. I just KNOW we’re going to have issues.”

But you truly never know until you try.

And please cut your friends some slack! They are pregnant and their hormones are all over the place. Just like you need a friend through TTC they need a friend through pregnancy as well. Someone that cuts them some slack. It’s ALL stressful.

And btw there are ladies on here who have PCOS like you and some even with other issues on top of it. And have been successful in getting pregnant. There’s a HUGE support system on here, make use of them. These ladies are a wealth of knowledge and support.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Im sorry you are feeling down. Just try to be happy for them in their baby bliss, and Im sure they will do the same for you when your time comes around!! As for you being afraid you wont be able to get pregnant, dont stress about it until you know for sure. I think a lot of times couples that stress out and put so much pressure on themselves about getting pregnant have a harder time. Your body is stressed when you are stressed and that doenst help, I truly believe with actual medical issues aside that is why so many woman get pregnant by accident. Right or wrong thats just what I think. So dont stress. This is supposed to be a happy time for you hun!! You will get to that point soon!!

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