(Closed) Annoying BM basically picking out dresses herself.

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What is the most respectful way to approach this situation?
    Should I pick out the dresses and comp her the extra over the $70? : (5 votes)
    17 %
    Should I let her get the ugly dress and have everyone pick their own as long as it's the same color? : (19 votes)
    63 %
    Or should I try to get all the BM in before Monday and see if it would work for all of them? : (6 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 17
    171 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    It’s your wedding! 🙂


    Besides, a better dress might be on sale later!! 🙂

    Post # 18
    552 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @Bunny2010:Great advice 🙂  Ultimatly I think it comes down to…certain things in your wedding are going to be deal breakers.  You want what you want and you will not comprimise on them. Are bm’s dresses one of those things?  That’s how I feel.  Like for some stuff I’m just like, “eh whatev.” And other’s I’m like ‘”I HAVE to have THIS!”  lol

    Post # 19
    149 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I picked out my bridesmaid dresses color and style — but said if anyone wanted to add features like straps and such that was fine with me. I think you should have control over the dress you want if you want everything to match — like me! I like them all looking uniform but I also was careful my selection was appealing for everyone not just one person or figure. You have to be fair in that regard or at least, that is how I felt about it.

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