Member- nontraditionalmiami
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
Ugh I have this obnoxious ex-friend whom I’ve known since we were 10. It’s actually a guy…total brother-like figure who I always gave too much credit as a friend (probably just because of how long we knew each other and the crazy shit we did together but he really wasn’t exactly a great friend you could lean on or anything). he’s a superficial and insecure prick and we had a big falling out last year because i told him that it was tiring having to constantly stroke his ego and listen to his bragging nonstop about money and the next toy he was going to buy and bla bla bla (that’s all he knew how to talk about). i said that he should stop putting so much emphasis on what kind of cars people drive and giving them credit for the fakest shit. he deserved to hear 100% of what i said to him and i was kind of harsh and he flipped out. i went to his girlfriend about it first because he’s so unapproachable about taking constructive criticism (me and her were really close and even she complained about how show-offy he was and how it got annoying sometimes). well he checked her facebook and read what i said about him and it started this whole war. he probably checked her facebook because he doesn’t trust her and it’s because he’s the cheating type and doesn’t trust anyone because he knows he can’t be trusted (he cheated on his ex gf all the time). anyway, so they totally ganged up on me and it was a big falling out and we haven’t spoken in months. at first i thought i missed them because we did do fun things together as couples but they really were dramatic and exhausting to be friends with (i’d get txts from both of them every time they faught and was in the middle of their shit 24-7) now they’re engaged and i’m married since this falling out (we have mutual friends on fb so i saw).
well now i have some friends in town who he met for like 5 minutes literally when we went on a trip to L.A. last year (me, my husband and he went) and they are musicians and are in miami for a music conference and all of a sudden out of nowhere, this ex friend is all on their facebook pages like, “oh where’s your gig?” REALLY? like find your own friends, asshole. he’s either doing it to annoy me, or he’s doing it because he’s trying to be cool and associate with my friends because he sees they have gigs and are up and coming artists and it makes him look good and feel good knowing people like that. he never gave a shit about them and doesn’t even know them except for when i introduced them briefly and then he requested my friends on fb after that trip to L.A.
why does this annoy me so much?